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I know and im not going to motivate/justify it. Its just very hard sometimes, imagine a 12 year old girl being pregnant, (worst case i heard was a 5 year old girl being pregnant (and yes its possible)) , what on earth are you going to do? A baby with no future, its also a 'doubtfull' thing, we motivate the birth of the child ,but once its born we look the other way. Ask yourself Does this child have a future? We have to be truthfull and say NO , many children do NOT have a future. Some drugged parents get kids, should handicapped people be allowed to get babies?

You can't say that its a 'good' thing to sustain life no matter what, you can't overrate life, and you can't underrate it. Yes life is precious but if the girl becomes hysterical and throws the child 5 stories high out of the window(true story) then what?

People want the enjoyment of sex, but not the burden of a child. It is the truth, a truth that leads to a lot of misery. People simply want to be happy, and not responsible for anything. I know sooo many woman who think , get married and have children and everything (in their fantasy world) will finally be happy and alright, the divorce rates and single mothers show different , so this leads me to conclude that.

'you should only take a baby if it has a future'

Girls should be educated on a much younger age, they have sex and alcohol when they are 10 years old or younger nowadays and the age only becomes lower and lower. As a result many very young (unconsious) girls turn into teenage moms. And then all the drama follows.

We have to prevent this by informing them and upper their 'intelligence' to say to them that its stupid to get a baby when your 12 years old, because you have a study/career/financial sustainability to build up before you can engage into these things.
 
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