Not really. Most royalists don't care for Harry and Meghan. Unlike William, he married someone with connections and something to fall back on. He didn't have to dance to their tune. They left and came to America and got an agent. Since they're no longer working royals they don't have the financial constraints the others do. They can have businesses and do projects because it isn't a conflict of interest. They have options and flexibility without the demands or politics. Since they're self-supporting they're not subject to the same scrutiny or charges of freeloading.
Make no mistake they have it easier. The American media isn't in the monarchy's pocket or under a gag order and they don't bother them. Whereas the British media can't do the same. Their stories must be approved unless they're leaked to other outlets like Spain.
People who aren't legacy minded don't understand the realities of what the firm entails and the ruthlessness therein. This is what it takes to build a dynasty and maintain it.
When Elizabeth and Philip get back to England, Elizabeth receives a letter from her grandmother that warns her of the importance of the job she is about to assume.
"I have seen three great monarchies brought down from their failure to separate their personal indulgences from duty… While you mourn your father, you must also mourn someone else: Elizabeth Mountbatten, for she has now been replaced by another person, Elizabeth Regina. The two Elizabeths will frequently be in conflict with one another. The fact is, the crown must win—must always win," writes Queen Mary to her granddaughter.
It must always win. You mate with that in mind. You breed with that in mind. Your career and education are a reflection of that choice. Your friendships, hobbies and interests are a reflection of the system. Your philanthropy honors and upholds the philosophy. And your children do the same. Their companions are preselected or must be approved. This is the way great families operate and those who would be great follow suit. You don't have autonomy. You move within boundaries in a sphere and breaches are costly.
You will sacrifice much in that world. Longings, desires, connections and more. That isn't an environment that everyone could handle. It's easier when you're born into the system. It's all you know.
Everything looks good from the outside but would you do what she did to Charles? Deny the woman he loved and put another in her place. You need a lot of iron to pull that off and the majority don't have it. They're not cut from that cloth.
~bella