A couple of years ago I had the equivalent of a nervous breakdown bought on by stress and suffered from repression (where memories in your subconscious come into conscious thought). I had effectively put all the 'bad things' in my life away in a little box - things I couldn't deal with as a kid - and at that point in time it all came out! I was overwhelmed in the negative sense.
Since then through prayer (words of knowledge) I have discovered that the reason for a lot of my suffering was a spirit of abandonment which I received inutero. My mother left my father before I was born and somehow her emotions must have transferred/effected me. Learning this was like a lifeline as I had never had a validation of/reason for the feelings of pain I had felt inside for a lot of my life.
In later life I also received a lot of rejection from my step-father. Mostly in the form of words (ie: not meeting his standards, being blamed for accidental things etc etc). I am intelligent enough to discern a lot of this comes from his background but this doesn't mitigate the effect it had on my life.
So a lot of my focus in the past few years has been working on emotions, attitudes, how I react to things etc. I had a breakthrough when I was prayed for and my minister felt it was like my emotions had been put back into place - like a computer being defragged! Since then the intense pain I used to feel inside is gone. Praise God! In all the consellors, psyciatrists etc I saw everyone said you can't changed feelings but I knew I had to in order to live a free life, and so I would pray saying Jesus no one can go back to the past and put things right for me emotionally or change what happened but you can fix/heal it because you know what I need and you created me and you took all sins intentional or otherwise upon yourself.
My battle now is with the brain and all the negative memories. Overcoming the urge to control my situation/environment as a way of security and instead trusting God, being able to see conflict as a positive and not only a negative, relaxing and not being so intense and serious and concerned that the smallest thing may have eternal effects and most importantly trying to learn to have healthy relationships with others.
God has blessed me with a word of knowledge stating that I will be comletely healed and has spoken to me through his word that the reason I went through this was so that my faith would be proved as genuine and for my (future) children. This is great, in the interim I still battle anxiety, depression & anger, irritable bowel (pschosomatic caused by stress and the sympathetic nervous system!!), but with a lot less severity than they used to be and more intensified during hormonal periods (sorry guys).
Anyhow now you have my life history!! I am just interested if anyone has any similar experience/journey, words of advice. Also I would like to say the bible says "by his wounds we are healed" - I truly believe this and would like to say to people out there who have been told that no you won't ever get better, or this will cure the symptoms but not the cause that "God is not a man that he doth lie ..." It may take time and may be in God's timing not ours but he can and he will.
Since then through prayer (words of knowledge) I have discovered that the reason for a lot of my suffering was a spirit of abandonment which I received inutero. My mother left my father before I was born and somehow her emotions must have transferred/effected me. Learning this was like a lifeline as I had never had a validation of/reason for the feelings of pain I had felt inside for a lot of my life.
In later life I also received a lot of rejection from my step-father. Mostly in the form of words (ie: not meeting his standards, being blamed for accidental things etc etc). I am intelligent enough to discern a lot of this comes from his background but this doesn't mitigate the effect it had on my life.
So a lot of my focus in the past few years has been working on emotions, attitudes, how I react to things etc. I had a breakthrough when I was prayed for and my minister felt it was like my emotions had been put back into place - like a computer being defragged! Since then the intense pain I used to feel inside is gone. Praise God! In all the consellors, psyciatrists etc I saw everyone said you can't changed feelings but I knew I had to in order to live a free life, and so I would pray saying Jesus no one can go back to the past and put things right for me emotionally or change what happened but you can fix/heal it because you know what I need and you created me and you took all sins intentional or otherwise upon yourself.
My battle now is with the brain and all the negative memories. Overcoming the urge to control my situation/environment as a way of security and instead trusting God, being able to see conflict as a positive and not only a negative, relaxing and not being so intense and serious and concerned that the smallest thing may have eternal effects and most importantly trying to learn to have healthy relationships with others.
God has blessed me with a word of knowledge stating that I will be comletely healed and has spoken to me through his word that the reason I went through this was so that my faith would be proved as genuine and for my (future) children. This is great, in the interim I still battle anxiety, depression & anger, irritable bowel (pschosomatic caused by stress and the sympathetic nervous system!!), but with a lot less severity than they used to be and more intensified during hormonal periods (sorry guys).
Anyhow now you have my life history!! I am just interested if anyone has any similar experience/journey, words of advice. Also I would like to say the bible says "by his wounds we are healed" - I truly believe this and would like to say to people out there who have been told that no you won't ever get better, or this will cure the symptoms but not the cause that "God is not a man that he doth lie ..." It may take time and may be in God's timing not ours but he can and he will.