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A warning from a mother and father in Indiana

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Have to wonder how much of this is due to all the trans ideology children are being subjected to these days. It seems more of this is to be expected as time goes on. It wouldn't be surprising if it becomes epidemic.
 
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It is a child. A child that doesn't need to know about the trans agenda. Let children be children! When they are older, let them decide. And no, I do not have children.
The child is now 18 years old, and the parents no longer have say over A.C.
 
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Gender affirming non compliance just slid over into the child abuse catagory. Look at it this way, its better than the child going into deep depression and ultimately committing suicide. This is not an uncommon outcome.

Blessings.
 
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The child is now 18 years old, and the parents no longer have say over A.C.
If this is the case then I wonder why this is a story.
 
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It is a child. A child that doesn't need to know about the trans agenda. Let children be children! When they are older, let them decide. And no, I do not have children.
What would you advise telling them about any trans feelings they may have?
 
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I, for one, am SHOCKED that Fox would leave out a bunch of relevant details and only focus on those most likely to rile up their audience.
Other media outlets do this as well.

remember the Nick Sandmann fiasco?
 
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Other media outlets do this as well.

remember the Nick Sandmann fiasco?
Yes - it's a good reminder to always seek out context for any claims that stoke a strong emotional response.
 
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What would you advise telling them about any trans feelings they may have?
I stand with the parents to raise their child as they see fit.
 
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Per Fox news, who should not be trusted to provide the whole story.
That’s right. There’s a lot more going on, but apparently he is no longer a child.
 
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No. Parents should have control over their own children until they become adults. This is insanity.
Just to clarify: Parents should have ABSOLUTELY limitless, dictatorial powers over their children and have carte blanche to do anything they deem fit?
 
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After reading that, it appears that:

1. The child is clearly estranged from his parents, and does not want to live at home
2. After the "transgender identity" was rejected by his parents, the boy then embarked on a kind of hunger strike, and adopted an eating disorder, as a way to seek escape from the home

One wonders what led to all this dysfunction to begin with?

the state wasn't simply motivated by protecting the boy's transgender identity, but also to make sure he got treatment for the eating disorder

but I also see the common blackmail technique of transgender people of "if you don't let me go get hormones or a sex change operation, I'll kill myself, and it will be your fault"! Transgender activists push this tactic online

this whole thing is a cautionary tale for parents: you need to make sure your kid is getting brainwashed with ideology, or exposed to bad actors.
 
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I think there is a difference between "refusing to use their pronouns" and actively insulting, demeaning, and creating a demoralizing atmosphere.
Citing religious, parental rights, Hoosier couple asks SCOTUS for relief after trans child was removed - The Indiana Lawyer


So what happenned?

What's AMAZING? In a thread in the christians only section, I pointed out that kid's whose parents did NOT accept them, increased the prevalance of mental health issues substantially. Here is anecdotal evidence to support that statistic.


I think it's pretty clear that these parents were not adequately caring for this child.
 
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You make a legitimate point. Some kids would use emotional blackmail to benefit themselves. But you also note that kids are being brainwashed, and perhaps some are being brainwashed by their own overbearing parents. This seems like a long running family feud in which courts are forced to intervene for the safety of the child. The bad actors are occasionally the parents.
 
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