Of course it is the center of the problem.
My dear sister, by YOUR OWN words you said...…………...
"I do not accept that in those few verses Paul was passing on God's commands - and you have done nothing to show me otherwise."
If that is not a rejection of the Word of God, then what in the world is it??????
Of course it's not a rejection of the word.
Rejecting the word would be saying, "I know that God, through Paul, was commanding women to be silent and not teach; I don't agree, so I'm never reading that verse."
I accept that Paul said "
I do not permit a woman to speak ...."; I do not accept that this means, "
God commands that a woman must never teach, preach in church or be ordained."
There is a huge difference.
Then you asked...…………….
" Why didn't he say (Jesus) that any woman who tries to be ordained, will be sinning and disobeying my word?"
Because He did not need to would be my 1st thought.
I suggest, then, that it wasn't that important.
Jesus said that he would build his church, Matthew 16:18. He also said that the church has a role to play in sorting out disputes, Matthew 18:15-17.
If it was God's will and command that this church should be structured in a certain way, and that women were excluded from leadership in it, or allowed to preach the Gospel; he would have said so. Jesus was God in the flesh; he spoke the words his Father gave him and taught us, by his words and actions, about God and God's will. Jesus never said in his words, "women can't do ......", and he certainly didn't show it in his actions. He allowed women to speak his word and be his witnesses.
Then why would Jesus need to say anything about WHO would be leading the church
If the claim being made is that God's will and command is that women must never preach the Gospel, nor lead over men; why wouldn't Jesus tell us his Father's will?
Jesus was God incarnate. God on earth - the ideal opportunity to tell us, plainly, what he wants, what we should be doing and how we can serve him. Jesus valued, respected and elevated women; he certainly never said "God's command is that they never be allowed to preach."
You need to understand my sister that Jesus taught the Apostles for 3 and 1/2 years what He wanted them to teach to the world.
I understand that very well; thank you.
He also appeared to the 11 disciples for 40 days after the resurrection teaching them.
What THEY said and wrote is what God in Christ wanted said
PAUL wrote those words in 1 Timothy, and he was not taught personally by Jesus.
therefor everything in the Bible is the WORD of God.
The Bible is certainly the word of God.
But that does not mean that everything that they wrote - some of which might only have been for those churches in those situations - has to apply to us also.
Paul wrote about treating slaves kindly - we do not have slaves.
Paul wrote that any woman who was widowed under the age of 60 did not deserve financial assistance, because they were gossiping busybodies, and needed to marry again, 1 Timothy 5:11-15. If you believe this is a command for us, you must tell any woman widowed by war that it's tough and she's on her own. My feeling is that neither you, nor your church, would do that.
Paul wrote that women should not wear gold, pearls, expensive clothes or have braided hair, 1 Timothy 2:9-10. If that is a command for us today, why do people exchange gold wedding rings in church, with the bride very often having curly/plaited hair and wearing an expensive dress? What is "expensive" anyway; why does God's word not give a limit to the amount of money we should spend on a dress?
Paul wrote that it is a disgrace for men to have long hair, 1 Corinthians 11:14. Not today it isn't - and how long is long anyway? Why doesn't the Bible say?
I am not trying to be petty or flippant. I am trying to show that if you believe that everything written in the Bible is the word of God and for us today, you need to be consistent in your application.
We can not pick and choose what we want to accept and reject what we do not like.
Good job I'm not doing that, then.
Deuteronomy 4:2 is a clear command……….
"Do not add to what I command you and do not subtract from it, but keep the commands of the LORD your God that I give you."
This is a good example of what I have been saying; who were these words written to?
These were God's commands to THEM; are they necessarily God's commands to us to? Do you keep the Jewish law, eat certain foods, wear clothes made from only one fibre, treat certain people as being unclean and stone to death anyone who does not keep the Sabbath? Those words are written in Scripture, you say that everything in the Bible is the word of God (implication, we have to obey it); so do you?
You have not shown that Paul's words in 1 Tim 2:12 ARE a command from God, far less that it is a command that applies to us hundreds of years later.
There is NO command in Scriptures that say a woman can not TEACH, SING, PRAY or SERVE the Lord in His church.
No, but that's how some interpret 1 Tim 2:12 - that a woman should be silent; backed up also by 1 Corinthians 14:34
There is NO command in Scripture that women cannot and must not be ordained.
There is however a command that women do not teach men and that is because woman was the first to sin.
No, there is a verse which says that Paul did not allow a woman to teach - even though Priscilla taught Apollos when they were all in Corinth. If he was being consistent, he should have rejected Apollos as an apostle, because he was taught by a woman.
And that verse does not say that women can't teach because Eve was the first to sin. Sin came into the world through Adam anyway, Paul said so, Romans 5:12. I would explain this further but you'll only say that I'm trying to rationalise things - explain away the verses I don't like.
Now I would say this to you. If you personally ask the men in your assembly if they do not object to your TEACHING them, and they approve, then that would be Biblically acceptable.
Oh, so even though you have just told me, in detail, that everything in the Bible is the word of God and a command to be obeyed; if women get men's permission to teach - and therefore disobey the word - that's ok??
When I was accredited as a lay preacher, the other preachers, clergy and then eventually the church members were all asked if they would accept and support my ministry. They all said 'yes'. I would guess that anyone who disagrees with female preachers goes, or has gone, to a different denomination; one that doesn't accept them. Also, the preaching plan for the quarter is published in advance - people know when I am preaching and they are free to stay away if they wish.
And it might sound silly, but what do you regard as "teaching"? If teaching is defined as telling someone something they didn't know before, how do I know what people do, or don't, know before they sit down to listen to a sermon? Biblical facts and historical background can be found in commentaries - which incidentally are usually written by men. I do not make them up; they are available for anyone to buy/borrow and study.
I also never tell people that they HAVE to agree with what I am saying; I usually encourage them to listen to God and then go away and re read the passage for themselves.
As nearly everyone in our church is older than me and were listening to sermons before I was even born, in what way do I teach them?