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wow, what a blunder I've made! I just got through reading this thread and realize that I totally misjudged the nature of this particular forum. I've embarrassied myself and it's all my fault. I should have read more extensively before jumping in with my first post. Indeed, I should have recognized the signals in the responses I was getting.
And y'all were polite enough not to point out my faux pas. Really, I had chosen to post to the Progressive/Moderate Adventists forum, thinking that, hey, here I can relax a bit, I'm coming home to a family of SDA believers. Ouch. Not so at all! I think I've spent too much time around non-SDAs to the point that I've lost touch with what's happening in the SDA world and its peripheries. The SDA title can cover a LOT more territory than I have taken the time to learn about!
Really, folks, I truly thought that any forum that bore the name SDA must be the equivalent of family, and I felt that, for a change, I could relax and share like beliefs and/or fresh insights peculiar to my background. What a mistake. I kinda wish that this forum had been labeled more correctly as maybe Disappointed ex-SDAs, or Annoyed ex-SDAs, or Disillusioned SDAs, or some other title that would better describe what this forum is all about.
Instead I came skipping cluelessly in among you guys, wishing everyone a Happy Sabbath. I should have read this forum a little longer before opening my big mouth -- er I mean, my big keyboard -- ouch ouch ouch.
Oh, well, so I have not "come home" after all. I feel that I'm right back out in the world, from whence I've come, and now I will no longer take things for granted. But still, I'm sure there's much we can talk about, just in a different context, is all.
Well, I've had a long, hard day and am turning in now. Maybe I will be able to share my experiences in the church tomorrow or come Sabbath -- or would that be Saturday to you-all? Yikes....
Not everyone here is a former or disillusioned Adventist. I am no longer a member of the Seventh-day Adventist Church, but Adventism will always be a part of my identity that I couldn't discard even if I wanted to. I feel that I have some things in common with people here due to our backgrounds--things that people of other backgrounds might not understand. I disagree with some Adventist teachings, but I post here for fellowship, and I think this is a good place for that even though people disagree with each other sometimes. I think you'll also find that "fellowship" is viewed more broadly in this forum than in some of the other forums at CF, so disagreement may be a part of that, but disagreement doesn't have to be disagreeable.
Some people who post in this forum are quite happy to be Adventists; they're just not traditional Adventists. "Progressive Adventist" is a label that carries certain meanings, but not everyone has been exposed to Progressive Adventism, so I'm sure that it would be a shock to expect one thing and get another. I personally don't like labels and never wanted to be categorized as any particular type of Adventist when I was still a member of the SDA Church. I much prefer talking to people as individuals and learning about their beliefs rather than assuming things about them based on their labels.
I hope you'll stick around because I'm sure that there is much you could contribute to the discussions even if it's in a different context than you were expecting.
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