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  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

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synger

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We were in a similar situation. We had no church home at the time, nor were we attending regularly. We were not interested in a civil marriage only. So we took the "priesthood of all believers" thing rather to heart. We exchanged our vows in a private ceremony sans officiator. We were married in a church five months later.

Would I do it the same way today? No. Nor would I recommend it. At the time, it seemed the only way in our situation to do anything close to "the right thing."

God has blessed our marriage amazingly, even with the decidedly rocky start we had.
 
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Is the ceremony more important than the marriage?
God's blessing of the union is more important than civil law. A courthouse civil service performed by a JOP would not work for me.
At this point in life, I couldn't care less what an ever-changing level of tolerance society thinks. It's God's command that matters to me and nothing short of a union before the altar conducted by an ordained servant of the Word would mean I was married. Whether there were 3 or 300 witnesses is of no consequence.
 
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