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Why would anyone even want to be a mod? I never understood that?
Power and control -- often at the expense of being a good person and doing what they know to be right.Why would anyone even want to be a mod? I never understood that?
Why would anyone even want to be a mod? I never understood that?
Um, no. That's not why I became a mod, and I don't know many who did become one for that reason.Power and control -- often at the expense of being a good person and doing what they know to be right.
Having said that, I know of at least one who remained a mod because they felt that they could add a voice of reason to otherwise unreasonable decisions. It didn't work, of course, and often left them feeling like a traitor to their own principles and ethics. But there will always be those hungry for power, control over others and those who will smother them with insincere respect. I'm hoping that their new training (assuming they'll get new training), will include the fact that "moderating" is about "moderation", not about extremes.
Chances are I was never in your section of the forum. I should have clarified that I was speaking mostly of a select number I've had contact with.Um, no. That's not why I became a mod, and I don't know many who did become one for that reason.
Um, no. That's not why I became a mod, and I don't know many who did become one for that reason.
They went to loved ones, they went to strangers, or strangers came to them, they went to church, whether it be outside or indoors, they read the Bible or other historical information. They listened to Christian music....
Again to my point, what did all those seekers do before internet message boards? Where did they go? Who did they talk to? What did they read? How did they find and stay on the straight and narrow?
Never called this place a church and never thought of it as one. In fact there is a thread in ethics that was started about a week ago that asked the same question. "Is CF a church?"thebear said:There is a lot of bunk on the net, for sure. That's one more reason people shouldn't be giving internet message boards the same treatment and status as churches.
pretty sure I am bear? You can pinch me to find out....thebear said:Are you for real???![]()
yes it is a message board. A so called "Christian Forum"thebear said:It's a MESSAGE BOARD, not the Holy Grail. Good grief!![]()
pretty sure I am bear? You can pinch me to find out....
Girl, have you ever been pinched by a bear?
A Christian one?![]()
Yeah... the ones who say grace before they eat you.![]()
That was good
Now I lay thee on my plate,
God bless this food before I eat![]()
A minister liked to go walking in the woods. One day, he was accosted by three large grizzly bears.
He ran, but couldn't escape the vicious bears.
Finally, in desperation, he fell to his knees and begged God to make the bears Christian, so they wouldn't eat him.
When he eventually got the nerve to look up at the bears, he saw that all three had their heads bowed reverently.
"Thank You, Lord!" the minister cried.
"Shhhh," said the biggest bear, "we're saying grace."
To some, Christians and non-Christians alike, it's more a Christian Forum now, (or soon will be), that it has been in the past.yes it is a message board. A so called "Christian Forum"
I think that title is now misleading and so is the slogan.