A lot of anger at my home

[Canada90]

The story is quite long when i was a teen my mother and stepfather built a new house and me and my brother moved in there as well. The house was quite expensive and for many years almost nothing was done in the house because they paid the loan and because they had dogs inside the home so they decides not to finish the interior and they just stopped carrying to finish it. Now my step father as 2 years died my mother got this house fully so i help here to finish it was wasnt done, but me my brother,mother and even grandmother we argue a lot every week sometimes days. The prices over the years got so high that its impossible to finish a lot of things and everything got old and need to basiclly change everything to new and although we took 36000 its still not enough. So we often argue,shout the worst part i see no end until we finish it. I know i ahould be thanful that we have a house,but when i think i see no end to finishing it it makes me angry, blame my mother,stepfather for not finishing it. Some will say sell it ,but i dont want to ,but many problems with this house and many arguments.

 

[tturt]

Thankful you have a home.

Encourage you to forgive - one Biblical example is the Lord's prayer

 

[Michie]

The story is quite long when i was a teen my mother and stepfather built a new house and me and my brother moved in there as well. The house was quite expensive and for many years almost nothing was done in the house because they paid the loan and because they had dogs inside the home so they decides not to finish the interior and they just stopped carrying to finish it. Now my step father as 2 years died my mother got this house fully so i help here to finish it was wasnt done, but me my brother,mother and even grandmother we argue a lot every week sometimes days. The prices over the years got so high that its impossible to finish a lot of things and everything got old and need to basiclly change everything to new and although we took 36000 its still not enough. So we often argue,shout the worst part i see no end until we finish it. I know i ahould be thanful that we have a house,but when i think i see no end to finishing it it makes me angry, blame my mother,stepfather for not finishing it. Some will say sell it ,but i dont want to ,but many problems with this house and many arguments.

The longer you wait to attend these things the harder it becomes. It’s obvious resentments have built up because of it. Is everyone doing their part to bring in the finances to get these things accomplished? Prayers for all of you in the meantime.

 

[Nick Joky]

The story is quite long when i was a teen my mother and stepfather built a new house and me and my brother moved in there as well. The house was quite expensive and for many years almost nothing was done in the house because they paid the loan and because they had dogs inside the home so they decides not to finish the interior and they just stopped carrying to finish it. Now my step father as 2 years died my mother got this house fully so i help here to finish it was wasnt done, but me my brother,mother and even grandmother we argue a lot every week sometimes days. The prices over the years got so high that its impossible to finish a lot of things and everything got old and need to basiclly change everything to new and although we took 36000 on this lifesaving site its still not enough. So we often argue,shout the worst part i see no end until we finish it. I know i ahould be thanful that we have a house,but when i think i see no end to finishing it it makes me angry, blame my mother,stepfather for not finishing it. Some will say sell it ,but i dont want to ,but many problems with this house and many arguments.

Hi, do you have any updates? I hope you and your houses are okay. Good luck to you

 

[Cormack]

More money more problems, my friend. I bet there are certain people in your household who act as magnets for drama, they fan the flames of disharmony or are guilty of being chronic nags. Mothers often take up this role.

Simply punish their drama seeking behaviour by ignoring them when they behave this way. Don’t make it a mystery, just step out on them when they are behaving poorly and acting argumentative. They’ll get the message soon enough.