What a path you have traveled!!
My caution to you is that your cousin sounds like a psychopath, i.e. someone who is self focused and feels no empathy for others. To a certain extent you may be throwing your pearls before the swine, so to speak, in this letter.
If you send it, I'd caution you to expect either (a) she never acknowledges it so, or (b) she decides to cause more trouble in your life than she has already. Be sure you are strong enough for the second option before sending it.
Based on what you have described, I would not expect this letter to cause her to examine herself or change her behaviors.
I would almost bet that is exactly what's going to happen. If they didn't get it then, they won't get it now, but I do believe it will haunt them on a certain level for the rest of their life, and maybe thereafter.
These type people are usually very narcissistic, and that of course, means they are never wrong. Wondering if the OP would be interested in exposing them to others with a sum up of how she was treated? Just a thought.
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