A HIGHLY sensitive person with struggles club

[TheSensitive1]

i suck

DEAR HEART NO YOU DO NOT God has you here on this earth for a WONDERFUL purpose...you are married and have a wonderful life.!!!

You are not alone.....I use to always think that I totally suck cause the right man never came into my life then I relized that God has blessed me with a WONDERFUL guardian angel and HE has been ever so kind to me.

I know it is hard BUT YOU ARE worth something!!! You are in my prayer...PLEASE hang in there dear one!!! GOd bless you!

 

[PorcelainHeart]

She is worth it all.

 

[TheSensitive1]

I'm pouring out my soul to everyone, because I wear my life. I have been through a h'llish time with Rita, Katrina and Stan and all. I also love two men, both work in the christian music business, and one of them is married, and the other has a girlfriend. I really want both of them, but they don't know I'm real, plus deep down I can't have them. It really hurts me.

Problem 2, I'm looking so hard for my soulmate, but I can't seem to find him. I'm so alone. It's hard for me to get a guy because I can't drive, I'm disabled plus I don't have a job. I really wish I could impress someone.

If the Lord wills it dear one you will CERTAINLY find that RIGHT man for you. You just have to be patient...I beleive that IF the Lord wants you to be with that special man that he has been ALREADY hand picked ESPECAILLY for you dear one. PLEASE have faith!!!!....AND please do not worry about impressing someone...I was told NO MATTER where you are if God wants you to be married God will have you two meet!!!!
God bless you!!!!

 

[PorcelainHeart]

Thank you for your kind words.

 

[thenewageriseth]

Yeah I think I suck when it comes to keeping crushes...although I made that mistake before...I think dating's like Trig.

 

[WalksWithChrist]

Ok. I spent last evening working on a signature project that someone asked me to do (in a thread awhile ago). I spent the whole evening working on it. I PM'd her with what I was finding and creating to see if she liked it. I didn't hear from her for awhile so I went to bed. The only thing I needed to do was add some ivy to the ends of the phrase. (which is harder than it sounds). lol.
anyways, I got up this morning and had a PM from her and she wanted to change the phrase and change the picture animation and have flowers instead of ivy "draped" on the letters.
She asked if that was the kind of feedback I was looking for.
I replied with "no, not really since you've pretty much changed everything. i wish I hadn't worked so hard all evening on your sig."
I feel bad but was I rude to say it that way??

That's pretty typical really. I don't do design, but a close friend does and he has lots of stories like that. Basically, the person you are helping doesn't realize that some changes can't be made after-the-fact without *lots* of work. Just be patient and explain it like that. And do what my friend does if you can...do basic mock ups that you can show and have her pick what she likes.

 

[WalksWithChrist]

Are guys allowed to post in here? Well... I am anyway. I'm not super highly sensitive, but I can be soemtiems. I dunno... I guess it's this whole thing with this girl... I'm like... i dunno... it's difficult to explain. I want things to work out... and so does she... but now im just afraid to screw up again... gaaaaaaah.... I dunno... bah! This is annoying. I'm sorry for barging in...

Randy

I've been here for a bit dude!! C'mon in. I took a sensitiveity test (provided by TheSensitive1...) and I am classified as "Fairly Sensitive" which is a notch under "Highly Sensitive."
http://coachville.com/tl/supersensitiveperson/selftest2.html
But I still like to come here and share and help if I can.
You can share your girl troubles here and also in the Singles section. Lots of stories like yours there! I'm a newlywed, so I can't so much hang out there anymore...LOL
Your story sounds a lot like mine in all my "few" relationships. You're not alone!

 

[WalksWithChrist]

i just got let go from my job

So what happened?? No, you don't suck!!! Take it from someone who's been canned more than once...

 

[Melody Joy]

I'm sorry I said I suck. that was not right for this forum or thread
I just get tired of getting reminded that I have a horrible personality. Which is basically why I got let go. See I was working a temp to hire job as a receptionist. I would work for the temp service for 3 months and then get hired on. well they didn't want to hire me, after I worked there for 3 months. Basically its because I didn't make friendships while I was there. Its a sales environment and its supposed to be positive and upbeat and friendly. Apparently I didn't make people feel good when I was around them. I'm just a quiet, introverted person by nature. But when I answered the phones, I became more extroverted. But not with the people I worked with I guess. I was quiet and shy and I think its because I feel ugly and fat. I feel like people don't want to talk to me to begin with since I'm not attractive anymore. I used to be thinner so I felt better about myself. But I've always been introverted. I need to stop applying for receptionist positions.

 

[WalksWithChrist]

I'm sorry I said I suck. that was not right for this forum or thread
I just get tired of getting reminded that I have a horrible personality. Which is basically why I got let go. See I was working a temp to hire job as a receptionist. I would work for the temp service for 3 months and then get hired on. well they didn't want to hire me, after I worked there for 3 months. Basically its because I didn't make friendships while I was there. Its a sales environment and its supposed to be positive and upbeat and friendly. Apparently I didn't make people feel good when I was around them. I'm just a quiet, introverted person by nature. But when I answered the phones, I became more extroverted. But not with the people I worked with I guess. I was quiet and shy and I think its because I feel ugly and fat. I feel like people don't want to talk to me to begin with since I'm not attractive anymore. I used to be thinner so I felt better about myself. But I've always been introverted. I need to stop applying for receptionist positions.

Mmm. I have that same personality type to a T. I can turn up the "bubbly" when I need to when I take my tech support calls, but I'm quiet as a mouse most of the time. I wouldn't last five minutes as a receptionist!! But I am always the guy that gets sent out to deal with the tough customers, and then am criticized for not being productive. It's tough for people like us to find that balance. I've also been washed out in that "temp" period too. It really hurts to be rejected like that. Hang in there tho hon!! You'll find something more "you" out there.

 

[TheSensitive1]

I'm sorry I said I suck. that was not right for this forum or thread
I just get tired of getting reminded that I have a horrible personality. Which is basically why I got let go. See I was working a temp to hire job as a receptionist. I would work for the temp service for 3 months and then get hired on. well they didn't want to hire me, after I worked there for 3 months. Basically its because I didn't make friendships while I was there. Its a sales environment and its supposed to be positive and upbeat and friendly. Apparently I didn't make people feel good when I was around them. I'm just a quiet, introverted person by nature. But when I answered the phones, I became more extroverted. But not with the people I worked with I guess. I was quiet and shy and I think its because I feel ugly and fat. I feel like people don't want to talk to me to begin with since I'm not attractive anymore. I used to be thinner so I felt better about myself. But I've always been introverted. I need to stop applying for receptionist positions.

HI dear one!
PLEASE do not worry about the receptionist thing...PERHAPS that may not be where the lord wants ya!....HE has a calling for you...DO NOT WORRY. And please do not feel ugly. God made you look the way you do cause he gave you those SPECIAL traits. Hey I have a VERY VERY fair complextion and very very very sensitive skin....THERE FOR any bump on my face is EVER so noticable. BUT I know that the Lord gave me this face for a purpose. PLEASE do not worry about your weight dear one. In some ways I know how you are feeling....Ever since I went on my medication (about 10 months ago) I have gained 15 pounds.....I use to weigh in @ 108 and I am about 5'10" BUT now I am like 123 and getting bigger....I am bothered by this because my pants are getting TOOOOOOO tight around my butt. NOW I have to go from a Small to a Medium...this is REALLY effecting me. I have been thinking about going on diet pills....I dunno, my roommate does not even know my thougths about the diet pills. She is lucky she is like VERY VERY small....about 4'10 and STAYS the same wieght. I can not get off of my medication cause it is helping with my anxiety. SO I sorta know the feeling about that!
ANYWAY dear one you are in my prayers....GOD BLESS YOU!

 

[Melody Joy]

i would love to be 5'10" and weigh 123!!!
but I'm 5'4" and weigh 175 +!! yuck

 

[TheSensitive1]

i would love to be 5'10" and weigh 123!!!
but I'm 5'4" and weigh 175 +!! yuck

I have seen your photo on your profile and you seemed to be VERY pretty. I struggle with this too. When I do not get hired at jobs in the past I would say .... YEAH it is all because of my face and my nose...it is NOT turned up!!!!!!

 

[PorcelainHeart]

I have honey brown hair, cold gray eyes, pale gaunt skin, and oily long hair. Oh I also got shadows under my eyes, I'm 4'6 and 100lbs. I'm pretty plain looking. Oh, and I have a small nose, I don't even notice it. I can't get a job because I'm too short and look like a vampire. I also have a funny accent and people can't understand me. I wish I was tall blonde, and pretty.

 

[TheSensitive1]

I have honey brown hair, cold gray eyes, pale gaunt skin, and oily long hair. Oh I also got shadows under my eyes, I'm 4'6 and 100lbs. I'm pretty plain looking. Oh, and I have a small nose, I don't even notice it. I can't get a job because I'm too short and look like a vampire. I also have a funny accent and people can't understand me. I wish I was tall blonde, and pretty.

SEE I am tall and have hair color like my CF character with a few GRAYS!!!!....BUT I do not have that LOVELY complextion like my roommate who is asian. Mine skin is very senisitive I DO NOT have a petite little nose that turns up either!

 

[PorcelainHeart]

My CF character is a veela,


We have another hurricane building up, this one is a male. He is stan, I suppose he's comming to find Rita.

 

[TheSensitive1]

My CF character is a veela,


We have another hurricane building up, this one is a male. He is stan, I suppose he's comming to find Rita.

I think we will be okay!!! I do not see a stan on the Weather maps!

 

[PorcelainHeart]

He is a tropical depression, he is not as beautiful as Rita, but we don't know how bad he will be. Most male storms been soft this year.

I don't feel the fear I felt with Rita, so I dunno. I don't think he will be much if anything. I could be wrong.

 

[TheSensitive1]

He is a tropical depression, he is not as beautiful as Rita, but we don't know how bad he will be. Most male storms been soft this year.

I don't feel the fear I felt with Rita, so I dunno. I don't think he will be much if anything. I could be wrong.

A tropical depression where is he located at the current moment?

 

[PorcelainHeart]

He's under cuba, he is going north-west or northwest, west