A great guy!!

[Niels]

Ashton Kutcher seems like an alright guy. Sure it's unusual that he would marry an older woman with kids... but if they're happy together, then I'm happy for them.

 

[Luther073082]

I'm starting to like him more that he's started taking up roles that do not involve him playing an idoit.

Its better too that he does some dramatic roles too.

 

[soccerdad66]

The reality is guys feel the same way, and I've met women who are both, either emotionally immature, or try to act too mature...

The last girl I dated wasnt either, but it didnt work out. It happens, it's just part of life.

 

[HopeFaithLove4u]

The reality is guys feel the same way, and I've met women who are both, either emotionally immature, or try to act too mature...

It's so annoying when people try to act, something different than what they really are!

 

[The Bubba]

If ya want a sweet guy Faith, try a Texan. We're brought up to resect and treat women with dignity.....

 

[soccerdad66]

It's so annoying when people try to act, something different than what they really are!

What's crazy is pretty soon you'll start acting like yourself and they'll figure out who you are... so just be yourself.

 

[HopeFaithLove4u]

What's crazy is pretty soon you'll start acting like yourself and they'll figure out who you are... so just be yourself.

That is the EXACT reason, I broke up with my boyfriend!!!! (Sooner or later, the other person is going to figure out who they really are.)

 

[soccerdad66]

Sorry to hear that. It makes dating tough when you deal with people like that, you become skeptical of potential mates after that happens.

 

[Inkachu]

I have a question for the ladies in their 30s. My 33 yr old best friend in NC told me that women are afraid of dating a younger guy because they think he might get bored of her and leave her for a younger woman. Is this true?

No, I'd be afraid that he'd be all-around immature and not on my level.

Oh, also, I read somewhere that women are more likely to marry a younger man in their second marriage than in their first. They need somebody who can keep up with them

I only plan to have one marriage, and I think the guy will be older, so...the age-obsessed sex-fiends will have to answer that one lol.

 

[Inkachu]

Far as age goes...hmm...

I've dated guys that were maybe 5 years younger, and men that were anywhere from my own age to much older, like 25 years older.

The younger ones always brought trouble lol. They aren't emotionally stable and self controlled and tend to be the jealous, needy, whiney, egotistical types.

I've had really, really, really nice experiences with older men. They're kind, gentle, sweet, chivalrous. They made me feel safe and protected and special.

So why didn't I end up with one of the older guys? As great as they are, I haven't found one with which I had "sparks" lol.

Still waiting.

 

[Thomas1984]

I'm just making my obligatory appearance. I'm Greatness personified.

Carry on ladies.

 

[Inkachu]

:is standing behind Thomas quietly, giving him bunny ears:

 

[ido]

I'm just making my obligatory appearance. I'm Greatness personified.

Carry on ladies.

Hoo boy.

 

[Apollo Celestio]

My mom is married to someone who was older than I am when she was born. >_>
Guess older/younger is so much different for the 30 year old than the 20 year old. It would be unthinkable to be with a 15 year old, but a 25, eh.. Interesting interesting.. I used to be into older women, but would never have dated someone with kids, or over like...26 or 27.

 

[Thomas1984]

:is standing behind Thomas quietly, giving him bunny ears:

Hoo boy.

Offers LARGE pinch of salt to both Inkabink and Flnativegrl.





















Some days, it's just not worth logging on.

 

[HopeFaithLove4u]

The younger ones always brought trouble lol. They aren't emotionally stable and self controlled and tend to be the jealous, needy, whiney, egotistical types.

That sentence describes my ex-bf and he is 43.

I'm just making my obligatory appearance. I'm Greatness personified.

Carry on ladies.

 

[Thomas1984]

I'm not egotistical, but I do have a great sense of humour.

 

[overit]

That sentence describes my ex-bf and he is 43.

I second that! LOL

 

[Bridgit]

In a relationship I look for maturity, spirituality, then age.

 

[JonMiller]

Age is a bit important to me, I would like biological kids and this basically means I am looking at under 35 years old. I am willing to look that high, and for a couple years now I have been fine if she had kids.

JM