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Is belief a choice?

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juvenissun

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I recommend that you start a new thread to discuss that entirely new question and issue, because that's not what this thread is about.


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It is.

The OP suggests: choice --> belief
I amended it as: choice --> verification --> belief.

Why is this not an appropriate response? It is certainly better than "Yes, and No".
 
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It is.

The OP suggests: choice --> belief
I amended it as: choice --> verification --> belief.

Why is this not an appropriate response? It is certainly better than "Yes, and No".

Because you're discussing the methods of reaching a belief, while the OP is discussing whether belief is a choice in itself. Your topic is an interesting one, but we're not all on the same page, then this thread will turn into people arguing past each other.
 
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It is similar to the US justice system: innocent until proven otherwise.

In this case, I (as a small child) believe what Bill said (whole heartily) until somebody tell me that I am crazy (then I might think it over again).

Bill Gate is a bad example. I like fiction movies. Partially because I kind of believe what the fiction said could be true. This is a 100% choice. You may choose not to.
 
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I don't think so. I think the OP simplified the wording and made the question not clearly described.

A belief is not an object. It is a process. If you choose, you are choosing to go through a process. The choice is the beginning of the process. It is not the whole process.
 
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You seem to be talking about two different things, neither of which is the OP.

One is the tendency for children to believe fantastic things, without questioning or verification. Of course they will. But kids don't get any choice in that, either, actually--they believe pretty much anything adults say to them in a serious voice. Either way, though, the question was posed to adults, not kids.

The other thing you seem to be talking about is whether you can choose to suspend disbelief in order to entertain an idea that you don't really believe. That's partially a choice (you can be trying to do it, but prevented because the movie is too riddled with errors and bad acting), but it also isn't belief.

We're talking about belief. Affirming, "Yes, this is true." Being willing to base risky actions on the assumption that it is true. Being willing to toss your arms around Bill's neck and hold on tight while he jumps from the top of the ski lift, because you believe he can fly.
 
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I strongly disagree with that. There are choices involved in coming to a belief, sure. You can choose to read about a topic and give it honest consideration, but that isn't belief. You can choose to re-examine your current beliefs and see if they hold as much water as the new one you're learning about, but that isn't belief either.

I think of belief as like pregnancy. There are a lot of choices that lead up to it, but none of those are the same as "being pregnant," and you ultimately can't choose whether to be pregnant or not (we're ignoring abortion, for this metaphor, though not spontaneous miscarriage).

You might have started to flirt with an idea years ago, but until the idea has actually taken root in you, and you are willing to affirm that it is true, then it isn't belief yet.

And even after that moment, it can prove itself to not be worth believing, and you may end up miscarrying the belief and not believing it after all.

And if it does take hold, now it still has a lot of growing to do, because everything you just studied or heard about, you previously were thinking of from the point of view of somebody hypothetically considering it, and now you're thinking of it as a believer--and that's very different.

And sometimes it happens by accident, and it causes you grief.

And you may try not to believe it, but in the back of your mind, you do, and it ends up hanging out in the back of your mind, unwanted, unexplored and unborn, like a stone baby.

I'm sure I'll come up with more connections. Endometreosis, maybe?
 
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No evidence=belief is a choice. Evidence=belief is not a choice right? Or thats not the question?

EDIT: Oh I read further up, not the question....Then I say not a choice since even if you have no evidence, you will have the choice of your "gut" leading you
 
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I think it's more sacrificing one's arrogance in thier own opinion than anything.

That would be a much better phrasing, because one should never sacrifice what one "thinks one knows to be true", because that would be sacrificing rational judgment.

However, I see now that you are using that phrase in a somewhat sarcastic way, using "thinks one knows" to mean something more like one's firm "stance" on an issue, which may imply a lack of continued thought and reflection on the subject.

Certainly, we should all be open-minded.

Open-mindedness - YouTube


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Of course I can choose to do that.
That's bewildering.

Nonetheless, working from an assumption isn't the same as actually believing it, as firmly and surely as you believe the Earth is round or summer is warm. I just can't flip a switch and decide to believe something that has no substantiation. I can't decide to suddenly believe I can fly, and then confidently jump off a cliff. I can't suddenly affirm, attest, abjure, swear, promise, and bind, that where once I never believed in the existence of Lord Krishna, I now do. With or without contrary evidence, I don't see how anyone can do that - not out of intellectual honesty, but physically, how do you do it?
 
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Yes. When my aunt and grandfather died of cancer within a week of each other, I cried out to God for an answer, for some sign that it was fair or somehow in the 'greater good' that he should put them through such suffering. My grandmother, a lifelong 'servant of the Lord' (her words), did the same, having lost her husband and daughter in one swoop. Neither of us got any form of response. That's the day I lost my faith, and, later, she hers. In essence, I realise that even if God did exist, he abandons us humans to the horrors of nature.

Also, if you have, have you done it consistently?
Einstein is (wrongly) quoted as saying insanity as doing the same thing over and over, and expecting a different result. Besides, I've only got one aunt left, and I'm just thankful - to her doctors - that she survived her brush with breast cancer.

No, I'm saying maybe in your case you should try something different.
Than logic and reason? What do you suggest?
 
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Many Atheists have been hurt very deeply by some suffering placed upon them by an uncaring God. I'm sorry for your experience WiccanChild, not that you need or even asked for me to be. I too suffer greatly but I can't turn it off. That's why I marked I don't choose to believe. I've been in these forums and been countered by an athsits at every turn at times where all my answers were shot down, I was made to look foolish and all logic pointed to not believing and I even tried to put it away as the challenge was given to me if I had the courage to live my own life without being a puppet of an unknown made up never would actually answer God. I tried to put it away and every second I knew it was a lie. The more I tried to put it away, the more it was like trying to hold big bottle of air under water. Just pop up like what are you thinking?? Anyway sorry for the off track but that touched me a little. I suffer and I cry out and I don't feel answered a lot but I still do it and I do feel help sometimes.
 
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You call it putting knowledge ahead of everything else, others call it holding God to their best standards of determining truth.

Christianity is a belief system such that the only way for I (and others) to believe in it would be to lower their standards for determining truth. Christianity, if it is the ultimate truth, should have nothing to fear from this, and it should stand up to investigation by these standards. It fails at both.


No, not always. It can reinforce them too. It just means that our positions are often inaccurate, but analytical thinking is the best way of refining positions also.


Very smart people are also good at rationalising, and a renaissance doesn't mean anything if the arguments aren't compelling - which they aren't. And incidentally, I find interesting that you'd say this and yet make the claim that the means of determining God needs to be accessible to all, not ivory tower - and yet here you're citing nothing but ivory tower.

The philosophical debate about God is interesting as a mental exercise, but it's ultimately irrelevant - not only did Christ actively fight against the theological elites of the Pharisees and Sadducees, but he also promised that his followers would perform miracles, not come up with really neat modal logic ontological "proofs" of God 2000 years after the horse has bolted. Christianity has long since failed to live up to its claims in that regard.

I think it's more sacrificing one's arrogance in thier own opinion than anything.

And how aren't Christian philosophers being arrogant in their opinion exactly?
 
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The very fact that you are sharing this information, of your inability to find God and your frustration, proves that you can find Him when you seek Him wholly.

Er....no, it just means that those verses are incorrect and that if God does exist he doesn't acknowledge earnest seeking.
 
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This is an interesting argument.

However, my argument emphasized on the process, it takes TIME. Many kids were Christian because of their parents. But they walked out of Christianity once they were exposed to, for example, evolution. And they ended up not believing. Why? Because they chose to review their belief.

They were exposed to Christianity without a choice. So their belief is not a real belief. But when they are able to choose, they reconsider what they were told. This is a process and conclusion is not reached overnight. It may take years. The consequence is that some discarded their beliefs but some still kept the faith.

That is my argument. Choice is the first step. It does not necessary lead to, or confirm a belief. But it is possible.
 
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I wasn't being sarcastic. In regards to open-mindedness, is one not being open-minded by trying all avenues? Surely someone who is seeking the truth will be open to all roads discovery and not just one.
 
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I thank you for showing me a side of you outside of reasoning and science and into the emotional relam. I can't offer enough condolences to make what you experienced feel better, but I can connect with you on this same level. Allow me to share with you some things about me and my thoughts in regards to their situation.

When my father would take his anger out on me, where was God? When I was being bullied horrifcally at school, where was God? When my mother dissappeared, where was God? When I was out on my own to face the world alone as a scared teenager, where was God? When I was addicted to drugs and alcohol, where was God? When I was homeless living on the streets with no food in my belly, where was God? When I developed an extreme agoraphobia as a result of the tormenting I recieved as a child, where was God? When I was diagnosed with an incurable disease, where was God?

The answer is that God was next to me the entire time, trying desperatley to draw me to Him and I was to angry to see it. I know life is hard, suffering is a fact of life we all have to deal with. The only solace I have ever found was in God, outside of that life is pointless. I never wished God into existence and for so long I hated Him. Even after having "evidence" that would leave most people without any doubts I turned away from Him, not because of logic and reason, but because of hatred. If I have learned anything in my 30+ years on this planet it is that for all the misery that life brings, God is the light in that darkness.

Einstein is (wrongly) quoted as saying insanity as doing the same thing over and over, and expecting a different result. Besides, I've only got one aunt left, and I'm just thankful - to her doctors - that she survived her brush with breast cancer.

I would tell Einstein to never try atheletics or to stay down when he gets knocked down. Life is about getting up and getting back on that horse. I have fallen away from the faith many times and now, at this age, have finally figured out how to ride.

Than logic and reason? What do you suggest?

I have already suggested it. Be humble, not angry, sincerly seek and you WILL find. You will be in my prayers.
 
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Thank you for sharing; I'm sorry for the suffering you've endured. I don't pray, but my partner does, I'll get him to say one for you.

The answer is that God was next to me the entire time, trying desperatley to draw me to Him and I was to angry to see it.
I've heard that sentiment before, but it doesn't solve the dilemma - why didn't God do anything? Saying he was next to you, or me, the entire time, doesn't offer consolation - my grief is for those lost, and if I believed in God I daresay I would experience anger at his utter indifference.

I have a question: if God were a mortal man, and he did exactly the same thing, would you consider his actions just or moral? If a woman were being sexually abused, and God lay there next to her, not helping, would he not be deemed culpable? Isn't it a stable of morality that inaction can be as criminal as the act itself? That's the dilemma I see; not only is God's inaction unexplained (I honestly don't see how "he was next to us" is any consolation; if it is for you, then my heart is warmed, but I don't understand it), but it seems to me to be quite callous. I honestly can't see any alternative.

Have you struggled to reconcile such thoughts? My 'reconciliation' was simple, I let go of my faith. How did you keep yours?

Perhaps, but there's still the question of why darkness exists in the first place. God's light may shine that much brighter, or we humans may be that much more awed, when there's darkness to contrast it to - but does that really justify the darkness?

I have already suggested it. Be humble, not angry, sincerly seek and you WILL find. You will be in my prayers.
But I have, as I explained before: I wanted some sign, however small, that it was all for the greater good, that there was some reason, that God indeed was suffering it all with me. Yet, there was nothing. So I have sought, and I haven't found. My heart is always open to the idea - who wouldn't want to believe in a being made of love, who loves you and makes it all better? I would love for there to be meaning or justification behind the suffering of my loved ones. But God, it seems, won't meet me half way. I no longer actively seek, as I don't believe Christianity has any truth to it, but I'm always eager to see God do... something. Anything.

I wasn't being sarcastic. In regards to open-mindedness, is one not being open-minded by trying all avenues? Surely someone who is seeking the truth will be open to all roads discovery and not just one.
Indeed, such as Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism, etc. Have you tried them all? If Christianity is the only way (as per John 14:6), what do you make of those people of other faiths, who believe just as fervently (if not more) that their religion is the right one?
 
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If you have to sacrifice what you "know to be true" in order to believe in a god...that makes that god "untrue." Either that or "unknowable."


I am not a "religious person" telling you to take this on faith. I am telling you to take it to the Man Himself. In other words, you don't have to take my word for it, He will show you. Now that I have told you this, it IS your choice to make an honest effort at this. When you hear Christians tell you to seek and you will find, this is what we are talking about. You have a chance to make the right choice, this is your will.
 
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You call it putting knowledge ahead of everything else, others call it holding God to their best standards of determining truth.

And yet there are other ways that you choose not to engage in. God, if He exists is not a science experiment. He would be the Creator of everything we see around us and as such should be treated with the respect that would entail. If not, than how sincere of a seeker could you possibly be?


I'm sorry that our methods are below you. They have to be avaliable to the everyman and not just the ivory tower of academia. Also we have nothing to fear, some this worlds brightest minds are Christians.

No, not always. It can reinforce them too. It just means that our positions are often inaccurate, but analytical thinking is the best way of refining positions also.

Would you agree that analytical thought is the source of doubt?


I was replying to Mark's article of analytic thinkers and how they are less likely to be religious. You are taking this out of context. And you should really stop making statements like "the arguments aren't compelling", when you are compelled to sit in front of a computer and argue with me about them on a saturday afternoon. It's kind of a silly thing to say when you think about it.


I beg to differ and the dramatic rise in students taking philosophy of religion would also differ with your opinion. Christ was fighting the opressors of His Kingdom on the theological landscape. You might not like what He taught, but the fact is He was a teacher and valued education.

Secondly, if Jesus was who He claimed to be, than you have no idea what kind of methods He would use or His reasons for using them. This is simply an assertion which cannot be verified. As a matter of fact, do you think that a statement such as "not come up with really neat modal logic ontological "proofs" of God 2000 years after the horse has bolted" can be verified by your own methods of verification? If Christ was who He claimed to be than He can do whatever He wants.

My own belief is that things such as the Ontological arguments for God's existence is not to win over legions of followers, but to show people like yourself that there IS intelectual stimulation found in God and that His existence will not be dismissed as easy as skeptics claim.

And how aren't Christian philosophers being arrogant in their opinion exactly?

Once again you are taking me out of context as I was talking about trying different methods of discovering truth. Christian philosophers ARE playing this game on your terms; using logic and reason to make it intellectually viable that God exists.
 
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