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BroIgnatius,

I hate to do this, but in regards to childishness, you are the one that is belittling and calling people names.

He asked you to not call him dear, which I would have done the same thing, and you went on a rampage, continually calling him dear.

It was a good discussion, it gave me a lot of things to think about, there is no reason to resort to name calling and the like.

Please forgive one another and leave it at that.
 
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geocajun said:
BrotherIgnatius, I really think you are preaching the truth, however I think what you are failing to account for is that church teaching is not as clear to everyone as it is to you. Some folks struggle and some folks never learn it in its fullness.
A lack of understanding is one thing. Even a stubbornness to do what one ought to undersanding (a form of pride) is one thing. But flippant disregard and dismissal of Church teaching is something else altogether..


geocajun said:
In the end, if Wols never beleives dropping the bomb was sinful, it will not effect his salvation
This is true, but the prideful arrogance to flippantly dismiss the teaching of the Church is a little more serious and dangerous.

geocajun said:
Your statement that he "spit on Church teaching" is unfair
Well, I would disgree. It is a statement of fact. Anytime anyone flippantly dismissing Church teaching they are, by that action, spitting on God and the teaching of His Church. It would be unfair to characterize it in any lessor way.

geocajun said:
- I don't think there was any spitting on Church teaching going on... like you, I happen to be a Catechist, and I do not call my uninformed students heretics, or say they are spitting on Church teaching by their ignorance
Well, as mentioned we are not talking about being merely 'uninformed' or 'ignorant'. The fella was informed and instructed on Church teaching on this, but he flippantly dismissed it.

geocajun said:
... thats no way to teach someone.
Not true. One of the ways that Jesus taught was by calling people names (see Matt 23), St. James called the people he was arguing with "ignoramouses", the saints have often used tough words. Here are a few examples of Doctors and Saints of the Church who would get an "official" warning from this BBS:

The pacific St. Thomas of Aquinas forgets the calm of his cold syllogisms when he hurls his violent apostrophe against William of St. Amour and his disciples: "Enemies of God," he cries out, "ministers of the Devil, members of AntiChrist, ignorami, perverts, reprobates!"

The seraphic St. Bonaventure, so full of sweetness, overwhelms his adversary Gerard with such epithets as "impudent, calumniator, spirit of malice, impious, shameless, ignorant, impostor, malefactor, perfidious, ingrate!"

And on those ocassions where one is confronting a heretic (not saying anyone here is a heretic, just including this as further evidence that we are not always to be "nice"; St. De Sales was asked by a Catholic, who desired to know if it were permissible to speak evil of a heretic who propagated false doctrines, he replied: "Yes, you can, on the condition that you adhere to the exact truth, to what you know of his bad conduct, presenting that which is doubtful as doubtful according to the degree of doubt which you may have in this regard."

In his Introduction to a Devout Life, that precious and popular work, he expresses himself again: "If the declared enemies of God and of the Church ought to be blamed and censured with all possible vigor, charity obliges us to cry wolf' when the wolf slips into the midst of the flock, and in every way and place we may meet him."

By the way, the word "nice" comes from the Latin meaning "ignorant" and later to come to mean "false civilty". In modern terminology, this is called Plausibility -- the desire to be civil at the expense of truth.

I admit, I am a not nice, non falsely civil, and non-plausible child of the Church. The only military worth joining is the Army of God and as such I fly the banner of the Vatican and of St. Michael the Archangel and NOT the banners of military units from 30 years ago.

And for those who are thinking that my approach to things is terrible and probably leads people away from the Church, not so. Through the more tough love, veins in the teeth approach thousands of people have come back to the Church, converted to the Church, been healed, been reconciled, become disciples, have had their lives changed for the better. This is not speculation but based upon statements of people who have told us what our ministry has done for them. We even had a small denominational sect of Orthodox convert en amasse to the Catholic Church, and a person healed totally from homosexuality, as just two of countless examples of the result of this non-nonsense approach.

The Church has many charisms. There is indeed a gentler charism. It is a wonderful charism. There is also a tough as nails charism and it too is a wonderful charism.

Anyway, the first measure of a soldier is obedience to one's superior officers and NOT the assertion of personal opinion in opposition to those superiors. In battle such oppositional behavior can get the whole platoon killed. A good soldier is an obedient one. Heck, if we were in the bush right now fighting against an enemy and I was the platoon leader, I would have shot such an oppositional person if that was the only way to save the platoon and the mission. AND that would have been morally wrong but I would have done it anyway.

I am not some pacifist pansy. I am thoroughly, and personally, aware of the issues involved. In fact, had I been President Truman I probably would have ordered the dropping of the bomb too.

But, you see, I recognize that my own inclinations and even preferences may be counter to the Church teaching. I try to have the courage to submit all inclinations and perferences to the guildance of the Church and the Holy Spirit. I am not always sucessful -- like posting in this thread, but I try.

Anyway, I agree with you that church teaching is not as clear to everyone as it is to others and that some folks struggle and some folks never learn it in its fullness. Our job then is to instruct and if necessary to admonish. We must remember that the Church says, for example when speaking on issues of dogma, that one is a heretic not only when the deny the dogma, but even when they are in "obstinate doubt" of the dogma.

To extrapolate out that principle into other matters besides dogma, the truth of the principle remains -- obstinate doubt is equally culpable as outright denial.

But, to paraphrase St. Francis de Sales, when someone flippantly dismisses the teaching of the church, and obstinately continues such a position, it is appropriate to cut em off at the knees. ;)

I would invite you to read our Catholic Q&A (www.saint-mike.org/qa/) to see the full nature of the catechesis that we do with 1000's of people in all possible walks of life and all possible levels of understanding.
 
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proud2bcatholic said:
BroIgnatius,

I hate to do this, but in regards to childishness, you are the one that is belittling and calling people names.
Well, first off I have not actually "called names", but nevertheless, so, what you are telling me is that calling names is childish and unforgiving?

emmm, then Jesus, St. James, St. Paul, St. Aquinas, St. Boneventure, St. Jerome, St. Teresa of Avila, and hundreds of other saints throughout history were all childish because they did, in fact, call people names at times.

In any event, Okay, that is fine. I relish being in this childish and unforgiving crowd :)

I might add, that I have been characterized in numerous negative ways in this thread. Oh, I forgot, moderators are allowed to break rules ;) , but others have done it too, but that is okay.. double-standards are the norm in BBS and Chatrooms.
 
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Bro.Ignatius, regarding Post #80 of this thread:
No, this is not quite accurate. One is a arrogant egotistical redneck, it would seem at least in mentality, who likes to post military patches all over the place in some macho display of childishness, the other is a Vietnam Vet who is not a pacifist at all, but submits himself to the Church, God help him.
You have collected your second warning, for violation of Rule # 1.

BroIgnatius said:
Well, first off I have not actually "called names", but nevertheless, so, what you are telling me is that calling names is childish and unforgiving?

I'm assuming, then, that "a arrogant egotistical redneck" does not constitute calling a name.

:scratch:
 
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BroIgnatius said:
By the way, the word "nice" comes from the Latin meaning "ignorant" and later to come to mean "false civilty". In modern terminology, this is called Plausibility -- the desire to be civil at the expense of truth.

BroIgnatius, let's not dig up words that are not used in the proper context, or the way it is utilized by society. This is when intellectualism reaches the point of being consumed by its most fervent propaganda. Neither is this a philosopher's forum, where dissection and exploration of every word is the subject of every thread and every debate.

Your premise is somewhat false. Your notion that being nice is at the expense of truth may be true, but later you retreat to say that as a Catholic, you restrain your own emotions for the sake of obedience. Surely, in one instance you disregard "nice" but then on the other, you are happy to put aside reality (i.e. you may want to do or think "x", but refuse to because of "y"). Now, the latter I would agree with, but I think taking us on a trip of definitions has led me to this nauseous comparisons of your positions, which might give you a taste of what you made us think with your "nice" definition.

BroIgnatius said:
I admit, I am a not nice, non falsely civil, and non-plausible child of the Church. The only military worth joining is the Army of God and as such I fly the banner of the Vatican and of St. Michael the Archangel and NOT the banners of military units from 30 years ago.

I agree. This is my position as well. Too often nationalism blinds (and this goes for ANY nation).

BroIgnatius said:
And for those who are thinking that my approach to things is terrible and probably leads people away from the Church, not so. Through the more tough love, veins in the teeth approach thousands of people have come back to the Church, converted to the Church, been healed, been reconciled, become disciples, have had their lives changed for the better. This is not speculation but based upon statements of people who have told us what our ministry has done for them. We even had a small denominational sect of Orthodox convert en amasse to the Catholic Church, and a person healed totally from homosexuality, as just two of countless examples of the result of this non-nonsense approach.

The Church has many charisms. There is indeed a gentler charism. It is a wonderful charism. There is also a tough as nails charism and it too is a wonderful charism.

I agree partly. This is where I don't. Wols, to my rereading of the posts, was not aggressive with you. Being former military, you surely know that there is a persuasive approach, and a more direct, aggressive approach. When one encounters their platoon, or squad, they may perhaps use a more aggressive tone because they don't have time for personalities. However, on one on one, character and experience will determine how a leader approaches his order. I don't think you had knowledge of either/or in this situation.

BroIgnatius said:
Anyway, the first measure of a soldier is obedience to one's superior officers and NOT the assertion of personal opinion in opposition to those superiors. In battle such oppositional behavior can get the whole platoon killed. A good soldier is an obedient one. Heck, if we were in the bush right now fighting against an enemy and I was the platoon leader, I would have shot such an oppositional person if that was the only way to save the platoon and the mission. AND that would have been morally wrong but I would have done it anyway.

This is utterly disgusting. You would murder to save the platoon. Great example. First, I hope you are not comparing the field to the Church. One removes free will, while the other respects it. That you admit it is morally wrong, but you would have done it is terrible depressing.

I just want to remind you of something military leaders forget, because they love to boast about how the lives of their men are in their hands. A friend of mine told me a story about he was doing NBC (nuclear, biological, chemical) training. During this exercise, they wear certain type suits, a gas mask, and they have a paper chart, which upon being exposed to the air will notify in case there is still a danger in the air by changing colour. In the event it shows clear. The LOWEST ranking member, or, the abundant rank would have to test the waters by removing his gas mask (for instance, if there are 5 lance Corporals and one Sgt., the Sgt. is a high ranking NCO, while there is an abundance of LCPL's, so there is less of him, and more of them). The Sgt. in this exercise, reminded them that because there was one of him, and plenty of them, that one of them, the lowest time and grade in the military, would have to remove his gas mask (after all, you are government property and if the military tells you to go into a situation they know will kill you, so be it). To make an already longer story short...my friend said, "Sgt., if there is 5 of us, and one of you, guess who is taking off his mask?" Well said, in my opinion.

BroIgnatius said:
But, you see, I recognize that my own inclinations and even preferences may be counter to the Church teaching. I try to have the courage to submit all inclinations and perferences to the guildance of the Church and the Holy Spirit. I am not always sucessful -- like posting in this thread, but I try.

What happened? I thought you didn't sacrifice truth?
 
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PeterPaul said:
BroIgnatius, let's not dig up words that are not used in the proper context,
I am using the term in its proper context. Are you suggesting that we are not to expose Orwellianisms. Are you saying that we should accept offuscating words like "sexual active" when the real word is "fornication", for example.

The word "nice" is used today in the same manner as the 15th century -- that that is to control people to get them to not speak the truth.

One real life example. I came into a catholic chatroom. The people there were talking about homosexuality. In that context I mentioned the Church's teaching on homosexuality. IMMEDIATELY I was pounched upon and was told I was "not nice".

Read the essay, Three Secret Strategies of Satan and you will understand:
http://www.saint-mike.org/library/BroJP/secret.asp

I will not dignify the rest of your post with a response as it is mostly a diatribe rife with misinterpretations and cattiness and an obvious desire to keep the argument going.

This thread is like Murdock on MacGyver. It never dies.
 
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There is a way not to keep a discussion going for ever, it's simply not to respond.

I don't know what is exactly happening but I do feel there are strong emotions in the way of better reasoning that are going to make further posts perceived as hostile.

One thing I want to say even if I get a warning and it is that the victim should not be the judge. Wether or not the actions were appropiate - which are not for me to ponder - they can be perceived as partial.

I propose a little something, why don't we forgive each other? We don't dismiss our words nor accept anybody's else position, just forgive each other.

The words of our Lord are clear, yes, but see how much patience God has with us. Come on, I have probably deserved a ray or two in the course of my life, but here I am.

So what about that?
 
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Since it is likely that this thread will never be redeemed into anything positive, there is no point to subscribe to it.

I apologize for my part in bring down the thread, not for the truth that I said, but for taking the bait into unproductive negativity.

I will not be monitoring this thread, so if anyone want to say something to me, I will not see it; and conversely if anyone wants to say something about me, I will also not be here to see it.

Bro. Bubba as left the building :wave:
 
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