spreefamily said:
Thanks all for the responses so far. Just a few points to clarify:
1. The site is registered in Perkin, Ill. USA
Then it should be accountable to US laws about this sort of thing. Unfortunately, the laws are not always clear cut.
2. The site is like just like eBay, but the auctions are for hard-core videos, and body fluid and feces covered items. There appear to be hundreds of different people who sell and buy there. There is a feedback system just like ebay's showing that many sellers have sold many items to satisfied buyers. Most indicate that they gladly accept paypal payments, and ensure speedy deliverly through the US postal service.
It seems real enough to me. I never saw that it might be a joke. Therefore, I think you have a legitimate concern. Mailing bodily fluids and so forth is illegal for a reason. This does have a potential for contamination and could put others as risk. From this standpoint, I think you have a legit point that you should pursue. See my comments below for more on this.
3. Those who keep insisting that we should watch our kids, have missed the point entirely. It doesn't matter if only 93 year-olds are visiting the site. (A) Most of the photos and descriptions in the auctions violate the obscenity laws of the USA (B) It is illegal to send the material described through regular US mail (C) Paypal claims it doesn't take payments for auctions of adult auction items.
I am not sure that we have missed the point entirely for mentioning this factor. It is important for parents to monitor their kids for a variety of reasons, one being that kids won't have the resources to do anything if they do come across something illegal. You found out about this by monitoring your son, right? So the point is valid.
The problem I have in understanding your point is what you think we should do. If you post to remind us to monitor our kids, then fine. Point taken. If you post to gain our support to force the site to close down because you don't personally approve of the content, then I reject your point absolutely. There must be more to go on than your personal preferences. If your point is that the site is definitely breaking the law and you want support in reporting this to the authorities, then I would support you if you could establish your case a little more clearly.
Regarding point A, I have not seen enough of the site to say "most" of the items do anything. I am even fuzzier on the breaking of obscenity laws. By placing the site behind a warning screen, they may not be breaking the law. Like you, I believe the screen they have is not enough. But I think the best place for pressure to come from would be the adult industry. If a site like this one is considered to not be following the industry standards, it would affect the industry. Perhaps we should write to the adult verification services and urge them to explain to the website owners the problems, which they would understand better than you or I.
Regarding point B, I agree completely. You have won this argument with me. The question I have now is how does one report these things. Nothing has been mailed yet, so we only have a potential crime. I am wondering how eBay handles it. They are a portal. Are all ads reviewed before posting? I have heard of people jokingly putting their kids up for sale. What obligation does eBay (and thus the website under discussion) have to uphold USPS regulations? We need more information to be effective.
Regarding point C, I am wondering the same as above. Does Paypal even know? It might be in this case that enough people reporting the sellers on the site would be enough for Paypal to close individual accounts of offenders. Perhaps the website owner could make it clear to posters that they should not use PayPal and give examples of the consequences. I use PayPal, but to my knowledge PayPal has no idea what I sell on my website.
It all depends on what you are trying to accomplish here. I don't think that offering breast milk for sale online is proper. But I can't exactly say that it is illegal without more information. I can agree that shipping the breastmilk might violate USPS regulations. Milk might be considered food and would actually pass, but some of the other items that I will not mention would not pass for sure. If I knew who to complain to, I would join that movement as I believe shipping bodily fluids serves a health risk. If you want to alert PayPal regarding what is happening, I support that too. Since their stated policy is being violated, alerting them to this detail is reasonable.
Regardless of all this, the point of being aware of things kids can come across online is well taken.
Could you be more clear what it is you would like to accomplish?