Okay, so I'm 21 years old in a pretty strict family. I am the oldest daughter and the only one in a relationship. I live at home due to financial reasons. My issue is this...my dad hates the fact that I am dating someone 10 years older than I am. I love my boyfriend very much and believe God had some (if not completely) a part in us getting together. My dad is unmoving on the issue and is not someone you can really contradict. He keeps putting me down about dating someone older with stabbing comments like "he's an old man compared to you" and "when he was your age, you were 11!" It really hurts my feelings that I am not "allowed" to love whomever I choose. It also just hurts my heart and I feel that I will never be able to please my dad and please myself. I just need prayers and guidance. I love my dad very much and have striven my whole life to please him. But I also love my boyfriend very much, no matter how much older than me he is. I am a mature person and would have a hard time being with someone my own age. My boyfriend has been held back a lot in his life and we balance each other out a lot. Please help me find a way to help my dad understand that this is my choice.