ThisIsMe123
This And That
Utilitarian work used to be a man's domain. He'd do the heavy lifting and she did the easy stuff. My grandmother had a lovely garden with flowers, fruit, and vegetables. But he took care of it. I remember her pruning and planting them. But he did the rest.
However, she handled the housekeeping, meals, and children. They had four. She did everything. We spent summers with them. I never saw him cook, clean, do laundry, wash dishes, get us dressed, etc. That was her domain. And she worked!
All I do is just mow and weed wack, trim the hedges, but that's it. I don't have a manicured lawn of my own. I just mow it when it gets long. Why complicate my life?lol
There are people I click with but I don't want to date them or become their wife. I see them as pals. I like a different energy in my companion.
This is where you and I differ, I don't think I'd ever have happiness in a spouse, until I can say, (like quite a few of my own friends that are married couples"
Say.."I married my best friend!" Of course, I would think this would be akin to a successful marriage, as not being friends first tends to lead to splitsville usually.
With what you said, bella, if most women think the way you do...this may be the reason I've been single for so long. Seen as "the friend", but never thought of in "that way". Which is kind of sad, and I honestly think that is kind of wrong.
I'm old school. I like a man with mettle who's visibly masculine and secure in his manhood. I want grit and leadership.
*shrug* different strokes, for different folks*
Call me the "sensitive man" lol Does it make me less masculine? Well, that's subjective.
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