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If they are not pressuring you into anything, and they are all of age then I think your best bet may be to leave the group or at least when it comes time to go to the bar. I understand that this may sound like a petty issue, but if they are all of age, are not taking it to excess ( getting drunk,) and not pressing you into anything, then really it seems unreasonable for you to asks them to stop going to the bar and drinking. Now, supposing that they are doing it some place else say a get together you all have like a holiday dinner or at your place, or out to eat somewhere where then are plenty of other options then I think it MAY be OK to say do not drink around me, but at a bar and of age there is not much you can do.
 
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