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There’s your problem. Find another way.We do spankings,
I have a two year and a half year old.
It’s a safe bet he would say he did not love me if I spanked him.
Think about it this way: when you hurt him he will want to hurt you. The only way he can is with words as he is not able to defend himself physically: so he uses words.
Don’t spank someone then tell them you love them. Do you honestly think he’ll grasp that you actually do love him when you act as if you don’t?
Find another way to teach him to behave: positive or negative reinforcement works.
Punishment does not.
Good luck.
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