Hello, just wanted to post on here and get some thoughts and ideas. I have a 2 year old son that is just... mean. I mean he can be really sweet too, but it doesn’t take much to set him off. He will tell my wife and I that he doesn’t love us, when we tell him that we love him after disciplining him. We do spankings, but are open to other approaches, because spankings don’t seem to have much of an effect. I mean he’s definitely scared of them and begs not to get one (they are very mild spankings), but it doesn’t seem to factor into his thought process when he’s acting out. My daughter, his older sister, was just not like this at all. He’ll hit us and be belligerent and blatantly defiant.
Is this just kind of status quo with toddler boys, or is there some way to correct the behavior? Like I said, he can be a real sweetheart too, but I kind of feel like we have to walk on egg shells with him. We have a new born also, so sometimes, I’ll admit lately, we just appease him for some peace and quiet and sometimes that’s at the expense of our other kids which I know is not ideal.
Curious how some others on here dealt with difficult toddler boys?
Is this just kind of status quo with toddler boys, or is there some way to correct the behavior? Like I said, he can be a real sweetheart too, but I kind of feel like we have to walk on egg shells with him. We have a new born also, so sometimes, I’ll admit lately, we just appease him for some peace and quiet and sometimes that’s at the expense of our other kids which I know is not ideal.
Curious how some others on here dealt with difficult toddler boys?