Again though, no one is saying that women do not have the right and duty to ask questions, to learn and grow in the faith, to teach their children the truth of God's Word, etc. If you have encountered differently then I am very sorry.
Paul is talking about leadership and the office of elder in the church. He is talking about pastoral function as it is carried out by pastors and elders and teachers of doctrine in the church and so on.
Again though, see CmRoddy's remarks, no one is suggesting that women must keep absolute silence, the context is about the public teaching office in the church as it pertains to the whole congregation. Women may certainly teach children and other women, but the prohibition against their having teaching authority over men seems very clear.