Hello! I wonder what ideas you guys have in regards to the 1st anniversary. What I have read states that the 1st anniversary is a big milestone and it should be recognized. It shouldn't be just another day. So I am making photo albums for each of the kids with photos of them with mom. I requested off that day and we'll cook her favorite food. I don't think I'll go to the cemetery ... any other ideas? Thanks a lot everyone, looking forward to learn from you.