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17 With Erectile Disfunction. I'm so sad. Can God help? Embarrassing. Don't judge please.

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I m 17 and three months ago I had a massive crush on a girl but then about a week later I realised I was losing my attraction to girls completely. This was frightening and I was afraid I was turning gay or something. Now I m afraid that if I even look at a guy and think he s even good looking it makes me gay and I seem to try to test myself everytime I see someone.

So my brains messed up, no attraction to girls anymore and I can t even get an erection. My life is a joke, a shame and an embarrassment and I ve no idea how to fix it so I think this is my only choice as no one my age gets these problems and can fix them.

Why me? This is so stupid yet true. This girl I lie I will never get and I will never want her as this problem is so stupid and embarrassing.

I keep praying to God to help me but nothing fixes me. I can't take this anymore.
 

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How do you know you have erectile dysfunction? Do you get an erection when you look at guys?

You need to see a doctor if you are worried.
No. I can't get one looking at anyone. Please help. Can God fix me?
 
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No. I can't get one looking at anyone. Please help. Can God fix me?
God *can* fix you, but the question is, will He? My experience is that He uses doctors/medicine to handle things like this. ED is not impossible for someone your age. As a previous poster suggested, you should see a doc. Maybe it's something as simple as low testosterone (now combined with stress).
 
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