10 positive things....

[hisbloodformysins]

This is a thread for everyone to list atleast 10 positive things about their spouses. I realize this isn't always as easy for some as others. But I encourage everyone to join in.

I've read an article that the key to a successful marriage is to be able to give 5 compliments for each negative thing. Sometimes the problem is that we are too aware of our spouse's weak points, yet not their strengths. Have fun and good luck, I'll start.

1. My husband is observant (something I am not)
2. He's very good with directions
3. He's laid back
4. He's stable
5. Most people like him, more than me
6. He's nice and respectful
7. He's a hard worker
8. He's good with his hands
9. He gets a lot done around the house
10. He shares the chores with me and is considerate of my physical needs.

 

[LiberatedChick]

Ok....in no particular order, here's mine.

1. He's a great cook.
2. He's a laid back and relaxed person.
3. He makes me laugh.
4. He's determined.
5. He gives great cuddles.
6. He fixes my computer if it's broken.
7. He doesn't believe in shouting during disagreements and so we've never raised our voices to each other.
8. He works hard.
9. He respects me and my opinion.
10. He always says "thank you" if I tell him about the chores I've done that day.

 

[karla]

1. He never says no when I ask for a backrub.
2. He tries to see the positive in every situation
3. He is a terrific father and keeps his family #1
4. He is firm in his faith and is a great spiritual leader
5. He is patient (with me and the kids )
6. He loves me more because of my faults
7. He is not afraid to do the dishes or throw a load of laundry in
8. He is very affectionate
9. He is a wonderful provider
10. He is the man that God entrusted to my care.

 

[Zoomer]

1. He loves me, faults and all.
2. He's is more than willing to help with housework.
3. He can make me laugh, like no one else can.
4. He's a good cook and I am not .
5. He is a hard worker.
6. He is willing to learn new things.
7. He is intelligent.
8. He is handsome.
9. He listens to my opinions and respect them.
10. He is a good kisser.

 

[redwing030]

In no particular order...

1. He helps around the house when I ask him to
2. He tells me he loves me all the time and makes me feel very special
3. He's polite
4. He's very personable, he can get along with anyone
5. He will give me foot rubs whenever I ask w/o ever complaining
6. He's not afraid to show his sensitive side when appropriate
7. He makes me feel safe
8. He rarely gets mad (balances out my short temper at times)
9. He's working hard at school so that we'll have a better future
10. If something's broken with the car he can usually fix it

 

[mystic184]

1. She is Beautiful
2. She is Loving
3. She is a Wonderful Mother
4. She is a Wonderful Wife
5. She is a Good Listener
6. She is Understanding
7. She is Compassionate
8. She is easy to get along with
9. She is supportive
10. She is my Best Friend

 

[pegatha]

Also in no particular order...

1. He's the hardest-working person I've ever known
2. Honest
3. Very loyal
4. Kind to animals, kids, and old folks
5. Very talented, can make or fix almost anything
6. Good sense of humor
7. Frugal
8. Intelligent
9. Creative
10. Always wants the best for me

 

[Jenna]

My husband.....


1. Loves God. Biggest positive that I can think of.
2. Works hard to support his family.
3. Is empathetic and looks for ways to sooth the hurts of people.
4. Is generous.
5. Is affectionate
6. Is playful
7. Bolsters others when faith is lagging
8. Can thrive in a leadership role without becoming overbearing
9. Is very patient, even when pressed, most times.
10. Thinks more of the welfare of others than himself. (he leaves that to me. lol)

 

[Green Orchid]

Ouuhh, I get to praise my hubby

1. He makes me laugh
2. He's relaxed
3. He's outgoing (I'm pretty shy)
4. He helps me around the house
5. He gives me massages
6. He kisses very well!
7. He lets me pick all the decoration at home
8. He's not picky at all
9. He hugs me in bed when I am freezing cold
10. Above all, he loves Jesus!

I LOVE MY HUSBAND!!!

 

[Andy Broadley]

Again, no particular order.


1) She is great to look at
2) She is a great cook
3) She is a brill mother
4) She is a great homemaker
5) She is my best mate
6) She makes me feel lucky
7) She puts up with me
8) She pampers me when I'm ill
9) She loves Jesus
10)She cuts the grass

 

[GIGATT247]

1. He loves the Lord
2. He is a great provider
3. He is always optimistic
4. He is a hard worker
5. He is patient
6. He never judges me
7. He is sensitive
8. He is compassionate
9. He helps with household chores
10. He cleans and washes my car every week

 

[SkyeBlue8]

1. He ain't bad looking
2. He's very sensitive to my needs
3. He makes me laugh all the time
4. He's the best father to our 7mo old girl
5. He's very slow to anger...how I need to be!
6. He looooves to help others
7. He does dishes and laundry
8. He loves Jesus
9. He's completely honest with me (even when I may not really want him to be..)
10. He's stuck around longer than any other man in my life!

 

[Svt4Him]

1. She's super smart.
2. Great looking.
3. Neat
4. Hard working
5. Great cook
6. Dedicated
7. Amazing with our kids
8. Gave birth to our kids
9. Loyal
10. Honest
11. Not a gossip
12. A true friend.
13. Concerned about others
14. Talented musician
15. Thrifty.

 

[hisbloodformysins]

Awwww, how sweet, you all have sweet things to say. Inspires me with some more.

1. He's rational
2. Slow to anger
3. Personable
4. Considerate to others
5. Doesn't treat me how I deserve to be treated.
6. Is faithful to me, dedicated to me
7. Believes the best about me
8. Has stuck by me longer than anyone
9. Admires me
10. Caring father.

 

[mojorising]

Ten great things about my wife…



1 She has a kind and beautiful heart.

2 She is my best friend and we can do just about everything together.

3 She is hysterically funny, and fun to be around

4 She is a woman of great faith.

5 She is a wonderful friend to people.

6 She is a wonderfully attentive and tender mother.

7 She is a wonderful, caring, nurturing, supportive, attentive wife.

8 She is a wonderful daughter and sister.

9 She is independent and confident, and hard working..

10 I trust and love her completely, and know I can lean on her when I need to.

 

[Jennifer615]

This is a very good idea. We all need to focus on our spouse's good points, as it is sometimes easy to focus on the bad when life throws us trials.

10 things I love about my husband....

1. He is devoted to me
2. He is a wonderful step-father to my daughter (much more like a father!!)
3. He is a wonderful father to our son
4. He is very very intellegent
5. He is very very clever
6. He is very very practical
7. He is good looking
8. I love his English accent
9. He has good morals
10. He works very hard and has excellent work ethics
11. He is wonderful with my parents
12. He looks ahead to our future, and makes plans accordingly
13. We have fun together
14. The children adore him
15. He cooks a mean curry

I will probably think of another 15 overnight.

 

[faith renewal]

No particular order:

1. He is sensitive to my needs
2. He helps around the house
3. He is a very hard worker
4. He is intelligent.
5. He harrasses me mercilessly (I love that!)
6. He encourages me in my faith
7. He loves our son with all his heart
8. More than anything, he just wants to love people
9. He's funny
10. He is my best friend

 

[jaimegerise]

In no particular order...

1. He's VERY Patient!
2. He's very responsible...especially when it comes to paying bills on time!
3. He's got big, luscious lips!
4. He's very talented at playing the drums!
5. He doesn't seem to mind when I act like a sillydoot!
6. He's got really nice long hair!
7. He's supporting me in my effort to go back to school!
8. He really respects his family and mine. (respectful in general I guess!)
9. He's a very calm person!
10. He's got a very strong work ethic and loves what he does!

OK I HAVE to add one more...
He's Never drank nor done drugs EVER!

 

[andiesmama]

Wow! Great thought-provoking thread! Let's see...

1. He works hard so I can stay at home with our daughter
2. He kills all the yukky bugs that appear in our house seemingly by magic!
3. He shares what's gone on in his day with me when he gets home
4. He is very involved with our daughter
5. He is a kid at heart
6. He has a great problem-solving mind
7. He loves to take naps, just like me!
8. He locks up the house at night to be sure we're safe
9. His first priority for a new truck is that it has room for our daughter's car seat
10. I have no doubt that he loves me!

 

[WolfGate]

1) She has a deep desire to be a godly woman
2) She loves our children completely
3) Though she is endowed with strong leadership skills, she prefers that I be the spiritual leader of our family
4) She accepts my faults
5) She argues only about issues, never personally
6) She is affectionate
7) We truly are one
8) She is pretty
9) She is brilliant
10) She is sensual and sexual