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My family and I started attending a nondenominational church a little over a month ago. We have all really been enjoying worshipping there. They preach a solid, biblically based message...the worship is great, and the congregation has been very welcoming towards us.
We're not wanting to rush into anything, but we're feeling like this may be where God wants us...but, we want to know that we know that we know...so, I've been exchanging emails with the pastor over the last few days, and today he sent me a copy of the church's articles of faith.
In the articles it speaks on the positions of elders and of deacons, and of course, references 1 Timothy 3 as the guideline.
1The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. 2 Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,3 not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money.4 He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, 5 for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God's church? 6 He must not be a recent convert, or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil.7 Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace, into a snare of the devil.
I totally agree that this should be used as the criteria, but I had one question in regards to it, that I've emailed him about, but not yet received a response.
My question was this: My wife and I are both divorced and remarried. If I felt called to be involved in the ministry here, would this be a disqualification? There are several interpretations of what Paul meant when he said husband of one wife, so what is the church's official stance?
So, I thought while I was waiting to hear from the pastor that this could make a good discussion here on CF.
What is your interpretation of what Paul wrote here? And are there other scriptures that have helped you form this belief?
We're not wanting to rush into anything, but we're feeling like this may be where God wants us...but, we want to know that we know that we know...so, I've been exchanging emails with the pastor over the last few days, and today he sent me a copy of the church's articles of faith.
In the articles it speaks on the positions of elders and of deacons, and of course, references 1 Timothy 3 as the guideline.
1The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. 2 Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,3 not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money.4 He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, 5 for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God's church? 6 He must not be a recent convert, or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil.7 Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace, into a snare of the devil.
I totally agree that this should be used as the criteria, but I had one question in regards to it, that I've emailed him about, but not yet received a response.
My question was this: My wife and I are both divorced and remarried. If I felt called to be involved in the ministry here, would this be a disqualification? There are several interpretations of what Paul meant when he said husband of one wife, so what is the church's official stance?
So, I thought while I was waiting to hear from the pastor that this could make a good discussion here on CF.
What is your interpretation of what Paul wrote here? And are there other scriptures that have helped you form this belief?