No worries
This is a Jewish law, and a tradition to the Jewish people. It might have been taught but does not apply to us. When reading the bible you will come across many laws and traditions that the Jewish people did that was eventually done away with.
Paul knew this and so when he was in Jerusalem he would even shave his own head as an oathe to God, because they still believed in shaving heads. When in Rome he did as Romans. He did all this, and taught many things, including traditions like the one you speak of here because the people had always believed it, and Paul would never offend anyone, and therefore he did all these things that some of them might be saved. If you are interested you could study and look up a bunch of scriptures concerning allot of these carnal laws that the Jews did obey, but they are all pointless for us as Christians today, seeing as Christ has taken those laws to the Cross when he died.
That's interesting. I feel like you're in the "Old Testament is a bunch of stories to learn from; New Testament is the actual rules" camp. Which, sidenote, I think is the most relatable type of Christian.
When studying the Bible notice how Jesus talks with his disciples. Notice how they cannot understand allot of what he says, his parables, and they even ask him to explain them. It was because the Spirit had not been poured out upon all flesh, there was no one but Jesus at the time to lead and guide them. There is a point in all this if you bear with me for but a moment.
Paul teaches, as did Jesus and the other apostles that there is a Spiritual body and a Natural Body, there is a spiritual mind, and a carnal(natural) mind. The Carnal is enmity against God, because it can not understand or comprehend the things of God. You can really study this in 1 Cor. 15, Paul explains this throughout the new testament many times.
Paul says..
1 Corinthians 3:1(KJV)
And I, brethren, could not speak unto you as unto spiritual, but as unto carnal, even as unto babes in Christ.
When you accept Jesus Christ, and believe in him, you will receive his spirit, and with it the understanding and power that comes from God. It is a great thing to feel that power and have a understanding of that knowledge that God grants to us through his spirit. It is something that you can hear, you can feel it, and it quickens your soul, and you will be changed.
For those that do not believe, are in darkness and have a much harder time understanding many meanings of the bible. For the Bible was intended for the Church, and is intended to be understood spiritual, as God is a Spirit and we worship him in the Spirit and truth. Paul says that you can not take the Spiritual things of God, and twist them like unto the corruptible things of man(carnal). But if you have Christ in you, then you can start to understand the first principles, and eventually understand all things.
1 Corinthians 2:16(KJV)
For who hath known the mind of the Lord, that he may instruct him? But we have the mind of Christ.
Luke 8:10(KJV)
And he said, Unto you it is given to know the mysteries of the kingdom of God: but to others in parables; that seeing they might not see, and hearing they might not understand.
Jesus made it clear here, that unto those with his Spirit is given to know all the mysteries of God, but to those without it is spoken in parables; that seeing(naturally reading) they might not see(spiritually understand). and hearing(natural hearing) they might not understand(spiritually hear).
I hope you keep an open mind is all that I pray, that in Christ you will find a peace, and truth. God does speak to those who have the ears to hear what the spirit says. Christ is the first step, and once you have this you can understand all things, much clearer, even the deep things of God.
1 Corinthians 2:10(NASB)
For to us God revealed them through the Spirit; for the Spirit searches all things, even the deep things of God.
This makes a decent amount of sense. The problem is that I understand what The Bible is saying, I just dislike it too often. I dislike the overall message, which I think is a pretty glaring problem with becoming a Christian. I do like the points you're making though.
In a nutshell, what I've heard you say:
I don't know if there is a god/God. But what you're really saying is that, if there was a god/God I could believe in, he/she would have to fit into my preconceived mold and set of standards. He/she would act the way I think they should act and do what I believe is right.
That god/God would have to be more like me.
Not so much "more like me" as just not advocating things that are deplorable. I understand that, if God tells you to kill your family, you're supposed to have faith in God's plan and do it. If God says "Hey, let me make you gay, but don't actually
be ga," you're supposed to spend your entire life praying the gay away. If God gives you cancer, you accept that a slow and painful death is part of His loving plan for you.
I see how a Christian would see people who don't believe in God based on those (and other) examples as arrogant, but we see you as foolish and desperate. Hopefully we can all respect each other anyway (and we have around here, certainly) because otherwise that's just a lose-lose. :/
You say that the Bible is a "mediocre story book" and the fact that I find it to be the very words of Life does not offend me.
Good. I realize I'm towing the line here between being honest and being a butt. I appreciate you talking this through with me without getting defensive about what I'm sure to you must seem like a pretty poor attitude.
You say you have Christian friends and began posting on this forum, leaning towards Christianity but your posts reveal your disdane for and bias against Christianity and the Bible. It doesn't offend me because I understand.
I don't just have Christian friends--my entire family is Christian; my grandparents (who raised me) and my in-laws are extremely involved in their churches. I was raised as a Christian, going to church and Sunday school. I never embraced Christianity, but I never rejected it either. I want to have children soon, and I thought it was shameful to raise them in a religion I've never really felt a part of, so I decided to look into it. And I very quickly started to dislike it. Any disdain and bias is based on experience. I know that you believe that real experience would have to lead me
to Christianity, but every religion believes that and it just isn't so. Christianity feels increasingly wrong to me, and the only reason people can give me to go for it anyway is "If you ignore your heart and follow these rules, you go to a heaven that you don't even believe in." Bah.
I could be wrong, but I'd probably be accurate in saying that you'd rather believe books written about the "theory" of evolution than mediocre stories written by men.
You'd rather not believe in the God described in the Bible but will gladly accept and believe theories about how our world exploded into existence via an unknown means, that began an uknown proess which is supposed to be taking us to an unknown end, ...(of course absent that pesky 2nd law of thermodynamics and several other problems with evolutionary theory).
You're confusing the word "theory" with "hypothesis". The colloquial usage of the word is interchangable with "hypothesis," sure, but the proper usage of it means that the theory has been tested and is a near certainty. "Gravity" is a theory.
Now you would rather believe in an entity that there is no proof of rather than a scientific theory that is observable, right out in front of you. You say I'm interpreting The Bible in a way that fits my preconvieved notion that God doesn't exist, I say you're interpreting an observable reality that's right in front of you in a way that fits your desire for The Bible's God to exist.
Your "second law of thermodynamics" comment is also based on a misunderstanding of the law. I'll be happy to explain that to you if you'd like.
Therefore, society decides what is right and wrong, there is no absolute moral law or a moral law Giver. There is no such thing as "sin" just wrong /wrongs, which society sets the standards for.
Society already does decide what's right and wrong. A pretty big chunk of people base their input on what their holy books tell them, but society is still a huge mix of people making up standards.
I don't feel like a need a moral law giver to tell me right from wrong. I do good, I feel good; I do bad, I feel bad. It comes from intrinsic motivation, rather than threats of hell and promises of eternal rewards.
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in the mornings being limited on time i don't always read posts fully so i wont give long quotes and replies .
but you used the term"know" again. saying you know the god of the bible is not a benevolent being - you cannot possibly "Know" that .I know that from belief from faith and then tangibly proven to me by the power and presence of the Holy Spirit.
and if you were believe that he is not benevolent then that would be a contradiction, as it would be saying ,you believe the God of the bible is there - you just don't like him .
I'm not saying that I believe God is not benevolent--I'm saying that
if He exists then He is not benevolent. If He exists, I don't think He's very nice, and I don't want to hang out with him.
I accept that your beliefs are presently different - I say again, we present you ours and invite you to turn away from yours .
But no one's given me a reason to.
all the kindness in the world all the good you think you may be ,is not enough to obtain the level of righteousness it takes to enter the presence of God - who is life .
because the vessel in which it comes is contaminated at conception . for in your body you carry the blood of your parent and your grand parent and your great grand parent...so on and if any of these (beginning with Adam) have sinned then the sin is in their blood and passed to you and there is nothing you can do to save yourself .
That's the thing about not being a Christian--I don't need to worry about righteousness if I don't believe in a heaven. I'm not worried about entering the presence of God. My motivation for being the best person I can be is to be happy and make those around me happy. I don't need to be perfect; I just need to be my best.
by one man -Adam, sin entered and through one sinless man -Jesus, a way of salvation is made .
now you speak many words in your defense - but what is it you defend ? what is it you struggle against within yourself . folk do not defend what is not there ,they defend what is there .
this is not about whether you believe in the lord Jesus this is about humility - it takes a massive amount of humility to admit one is a sinner .this is where so many stop in their search - the truth is before them - but it effect ones prides and they turn away . but say what you may outwardly -you know your own conscience inwardly .
I feel like I'm struggling more against social pressures than within myself. At this point I only care about Christianity due to peer pressure.
I don't think it takes much humility at all to admit one is a sinner. There aren't that many people in the world that claim to be perfect.
so again i invite you - turn away from your own way and follow GOd - listen to him and do as he instructs - not as man instructs but as GOD has spoken - so listen and so do and be saved .
Why? Saved from what?
I testify to you of that which i KNOW, that which i have seen and felt and tangibly experienced
you speak only your opinion .
opinion can never annul testimony - you can only reject it - never cancel it .
you can only, by willful choice - disbelieve . and it makes no reasonable sense to do so
I don't know what any of that means.
Well my book says that there are seven gods, and mine is older than yours. (Sorry, I'm just being a brat; couldn't help myself. Don't take me seriously.)