Rolf, first I provided the text then provided commentary concerning the text. To charge me with adding to the text is without merit, simply an ad homenin.
Here is what I said, " So Psalm 103:17 says if we choose to love God with all our heart and all our mind and all our understanding, if we fear the Lord rather than live as if He did not exist, we will enjoy the full span of His eternal love."
Next you claim I avoided the idea that the love began in eternity past. But this is a complete falsehood. Here is what I said, "God is love, and His love existed in eternity past, before time began, and stretches to eternity future, after the end of time. And who enjoys this full span of eternal love? Those that fear the Lord." So I did not ignore the fact that God's love for us existed in eternity past. What I said that differred from your view, is God's love in eternity past was directed toward those who would fear God, (hence was not existing undirected in a vacuum) and not to those who ignore God and live as if God does not exist. I said His love was applied to us as individuals when we were alive just as indicated in verse 13.
I love medium steaks, and when I sit down and order one, I can say I love medium steak. And when one arrives, I can say my steadfast love for you has existed from before you were created, and my love for you will last long after my plate is empty.
An underlying premise of Calvinism is God is unable to conceive general notions, he is limited to thinking only in specifics, so God cannot love us as a generic kind of person, one who fears the Lord, without foreseeing us as specific individuals. Silly yes, but they believe it with all their hearts.
You claim that scripture says if you fear the Lord you do not love the Lord, but no reference is provided. But good ol Van provides references for his assertions. 2 Corinthinans 5:11-15. Paul knows the fear of the Lord (verse 11) and the love of Christ controls him (verse 14.) So they are not mutally exclusive but go hand in hand.
Now my study bible provides a note next to the word translated "fear" and says revere. So the word could mean the same as love. So I simply provided a contextual straightforward understanding of the text without pouring Calvinism into it.
Now lets look at Jeremiah 32:40, where God says He will put the fear of the Lord in the hearts. This is a reference to the New or Everlasting Covenant, not the Old Covenant. This is talking about our conversion "in Christ" and not about the fear of the Lord that we might have prior to conversion. Why is it that Calvinism trys to transplant the New Convenant into the dispensation of the OT. To hide the fact that folks in the OT feared God!!!! And none of these folks were regenerated, no one was made alive together with Christ until after Christ was sacrificed on Calvary.
Calvinism simply does not stand up to study, when specific verses are studied in context, rather than alluded to.