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step children

  1. C

    Child-on-child molestation occurred, what now?

    Short story: my son “Jay” molested my step-son “Bill” (the incident happens twice and there was no penetration) at the time he was 11, and 7. This occurred about 4 years ago, he’s been in therapy (he’s had difficulties along the way but more so about behavior than acting out sexually) recently...
  2. Llleopard

    Step children

    Other step parents...... honestly, do you feel the same about your step children and your own children? When I married their dad, his kids were 18-28 and almost all left home. We see them all often, and are on good terms. They sometimes confide in me or ask advice, but have their own mothers...