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sex addiction

  1. JeffTheAmericanChristian

    Struggles in the Area of Lust

    Hey, everybody. It's been a few months since my wife left me. She wanted a different kind of life, so now I find myself divorced and alone. After the sun goes down, many temptations come my way to lust and to act out on that lust. Please pray for me, and I will pray for you guys, too. We...
  2. N

    Am I too far gone?

    WARNING: This is going to be VERY long but would appreciate the help. I've been in the church my whole life. I grew up going to church every sunday with my family. We have all been believers our whole lives. When I was in middle school I started attending youth group at the vineyard community...
  3. K

    Sexual Sin with My Boyfriend

    My boyfriend and I are both Christian (a faithful one - born and raised in a strong Christian family). However after dating, we find ourselves now keep on struggling with our sexual desire and sin. It started with a normal kiss and hug, then passionate kiss, and now dry humping and touching...
  4. Dropout_Theologian

    Overcoming Sexual Addiction - Understanding the Mold

    The following are excerpts from chapter 5 of Russell Willingham’s Breaking Free: Understanding Sexual Addiction & the Healing Power of Jesus. 5 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Understanding the Mold Essential Three: Exploring Family Issues "Why dig up the past...
  5. Dropout_Theologian

    Overcoming Sexual Addiction - Enlisting the Help of Others

    The following are excerpts from chapter 4 of Russell Willingham’s Breaking Free: Understanding Sexual Addiction & the Healing Power of Jesus. 4 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Enlisting the Help of Others Essential Two: The Power of Genuine Friendship "Nathan stood...
  6. Dropout_Theologian

    Overcoming Sexual Addiction - The Twelve Steps

    The following in an excerpt from Sexaholics Anonymous. THE TWELVE STEPS OF SEXAHOLICS ANONYMOUS 1. We admitted that we were powerless over lust—that our lives had become unmanageable. 2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. 3. Made a decision to turn...
  7. G

    I really need an accountability partner

    All my life since the age of 5,6 or 7 I was introduced to sexual things by my neighbor and did some horrible things. I did some worse sexual things with even my sister. As I keep growing, I loved watching movies with sexual content and stop for a while. All throughout middle school to high...
  8. BroIgnatius

    Sexual Addictions

    I hope it is okay to post this. If not, let me know. We are inviting anyone who needs to join us in an online healing service for those with sexual addictions. Folks, we live in a overly-sexualized culture. As high as 80% of men consume pornography. The percentage of women is also high. All...
  9. Gregory Mallett

    Prayers needed to overcome Pornography!

    Hey All, I just joined this forum to ask for some prayers from my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. I have deeply damaged my connection to God this week and as a result am feeling pretty lonely and desperate. Porn is one of those vices that can recur over a period of time and when it does...