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marriage troubles

  1. S

    Wife and I are starting over, help?

    Hi everyone, I'm new here! This is my first post. To make a long story somewhat short, my wife (24) and I (26) are approaching our 3 year anniversary. Everything was running smooth, at least it appeared that way until the first week of sept when everything collapsed. My wife told me about an...
  2. S

    Marriage Advice

    Hi there. I wanted some advice on my marriage. I want to take divorce from my husband but he's not ready to give me. All he says is he wants me. I dont understand what for he needs me when he never loves me. because of his family i lost my mom. my mother in law dislikes me for nothing and never...
  3. Valpal1123

    being married young...

    I think we need to have more support groups for young christian wives and christian husbands... Were people can really offer advice without judgement....
  4. S

    Dating a non-virgin

    Dear All, I am currently dating a girl and i found out that she is not a virgin. As for me through the Grace of God i am. I understand and truly believe that it was not my will, but rather God's Will and Grace that intervened in many of these situations where i could too have slept with a girl...
  5. J

    UPDATE: http://www.christianforums.com/threads/wife-surprised-me-with-separation.7978532

    My wife still comes in to pick up the kids for school and drop them off after they get out. She still sticks around to help our youngest with homework, cooks and washes clothes from time to time. We laugh and talk. She's still adamant about divorce. I discovered that the lady that she's...
  6. L

    Hi, Where can I get advice on my marriage?

    Hi, I joined this forum with the hope of getting advice ... my husband and I have been married a little over a year and it feels like everything is falling apart. I'm the only Christian in my family (I'm an adult convert) and I feel as though I lost my church community when I got married. We...
  7. Minoa

    Health-phobic+self-righteous spouse

    I have a spouse that has relation-destroying levels of irrational health-related fears that have increasingly I've noticed been getting worse the past week. I'm trying to push him to get therapy right now...but God help me, I can barely tell anything improves. Fussy about what he eats, what...
  8. W

    so upset I regret getting married

    hey everyone. I've been married for 2 years and nothing has been working out for us very well. He's been deployed and away for training for about 17 months out of those two years. In the beginning (before my salvation in Christ) when we were dating life was perfect. We never fought, we actually...
  9. M

    My Husband Won't Stop Lying

    Okay, so bare with me. This is a long one. My husband and I have been married for a little over a year. When we married, we were both born again Christian's (I rededicated my life after walking away and he accepted Christ). We abstained from sex and courted for 8 months before our wedding even...