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  1. B

    Having relationship issues, need advice.

    Me (M 19) and my girlfriend (20) have been dating for 3 years. I know we’re pretty young, but we have an apartment together in Los Angeles. I’m a Lutheran and conservative. She’s a pagan and liberal. We’ve known throughout our relationship that we have different views on religion and...
  2. T

    13 years and still no ring

    Hello all, I'm feeling very discouraged. I've met the love of my life a long time ago. We've been through a lot of ups and downs mostly because we weren't leading a Christian life and living through God. We had a daughter 5 years ago and ever since we've gradually become closer and closer to...
  3. J

    UPDATE: http://www.christianforums.com/threads/wife-surprised-me-with-separation.7978532

    My wife still comes in to pick up the kids for school and drop them off after they get out. She still sticks around to help our youngest with homework, cooks and washes clothes from time to time. We laugh and talk. She's still adamant about divorce. I discovered that the lady that she's...
  4. J

    Wife surprised me with Separation

    I need help that only God can give me, strength that I don't have, joy and peace that has been shaken, and I'm fighting fear, which is not of God. It's been a week since my wife left me. She had distanced herself from me and I confronted her and, long story short, she said that she didn't want...