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Hi Raymond, Thanks for your comments. As for our relationship, I bought all assets under her name (car & house) and had a joint account with her. Initially, we had a loving relationship .... monetary wise no issue (just take from joint account). She does have her own account (healthy balance)...

Of course I appreciated her care and concerns very much ... had 2 heart2heart chats with her to stop her affair, repent and we work on our relationship back again. (Got PI report of her affair, with pics ... she didn't know I have this). Instead, she turned around to me (and to her siblings) and...

No. Had given her 2 chances to repent but she turned around to tell her siblings and close friends that my illness had made me hallucinate her of having affairs. Now, I am not invited to her siblings houses anymore.

The other painful part ... is my daughter is getting married in July 2018. I think I should divorce only after her wedding ... a big dinner party (500 pax) is being organised and relatives from abroad are coming.

I will use this threat to get her to sign the divorce papers.

Finding/making every excuse not to go. Initially, I found it strange that all Christian songs are not in our car anymore instead she kept listening to 80s love ballads .... now I know.

I have PI's report with pics. I definitely wanted to expose them when I divorce my wife but I was scared that his wife and children would be badly affected.

His wife knew he had other affairs and tolerated him because of the children.

I have given her 2 attempts to admit and repent. She turned around and told all her siblings that my illness had affected my brains and I kept hallucinating that she was having an affair.

In Matt 5:31-32 ... seemed to say it's the right thing to do (in my case). But many other verses seemed to indicate one must not divorce his wife. Please share your thoughts with me as I am planning to divorce her in 2 months time. Am I doing the right thing? A little background, we are now...

Just signed up for counseling this Wednesday .... alone. I am not feeling sad just planning new life for myself.

I would say we are a loving couple before my medical issue. We served as "Christian Marriage Encouragers" for 10 years and ministered to over 500 couples over that time. When I woke up from coma .... I met a new person (wife) who's secretive and likes going out on her own (worst does not want me...

The issues with going to the clubs with her are :- 1. It's smoky and I am not a smoker. 2. Loud music and it's very uncomfortable for me. 3. I don't drink alcohol .... she prefers whisky rocks. 4. She wants to dance in the clubs ... and I am physically challenged. 5. She set Weds, Thurs &...

Thanks bro and sis for replying to my question. She changed into someone I don't recognize anymore ..... 1. We are a Marriage Weekend Team Couple. So I know we must be open and communicate with each other. But she kept saying "I have no issue." 2. She no longer listen to any Christian songs in...

Today she seemed to acknowledge I know her clubbing evenings were not a girls' night out. She admitted there were men company too. I told her I don't like what I am sensing and maybe a divorce would be an peaceful solution for her clubbing and other "unholy" activities .... I cited 3 male...

Thanks Ron for the encouragement. As mentioned earlier, I told her to stop clubbing out there and put the past 2 years behind. She seemed "addicted" to the clubbing scenes and even made plans with friends to clubs in my presence knowing I can't make the outing. So, it's to continue to suffer...

I did have a coffee chat with her a few months ago. This was how it went .... Me: Dear, I know I was comatosed 2 years ago and it could be stressful for you. If you have had any affair, I understand and will not hold it against you but you MUST stop it and we build or marriage again. Maybe, a...

We are both 56 yo. Married 32 yrs now. She was my first love. First 28 yrs of our marriage was a lovely and story book romance ... until I was comatosed for 2 yrs. Medical negligence issue. 1. When I first woke up from my comatosed state, I saw a worried look in my wife's face. She was planning...

Shalom brothers & sisters, I joined this forum for some peace of mind and spiritual fellowship. I was comatosed for 2 years, 1 year physio-therapy and past 6 months mobility and awareness gradually returned. We (50 yos) were an active couple (physically and socially). My mobility quite impacted...

Oh .... I forgot to give testimony of my medical issue. I was quite worked up in the first month of issue with wife, then was reminded of my encounter with Him and Jesus. I am now more focused on what needed to be done. I had 2 abdominal surgeries 3 years ago ... which was a misdiagnosed case...