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well, that's definitely not me. As I said before, I am more concerned with her pleasure than mine. I enjoy getting her off more than me. I love to touch and provide pleasure. Sure, it's great to get off myself, but I long for that physical and intimate connection. I wake up with a raging...

Interesting, you are a pot stirrer. I in no way treat her like a piece of meat. I haven't even initiated sex in years. She is in complete control of it. I grew tired of being rejected, so I just stopped even asking. As far as "legal" touching yourself, do you think that touching yourself is wrong...

you're exactly right. You hit the nail on the head. Still doesn't help with my sexual needs and desires. We are trying to work on emotional intimacy, but it hasn't been helping.

She has said before that if she never has sex again in her whole life, she would be fine. That's not the best thing to hear after 2 years of marriage (we have been married 20 now).

Thanks for your response and words. I am not telling her that she is sinning, no way. I know better than that. There are trust issues, her past trauma (not horrible, but guys forcing her to do things), and financial stress and job stuff that is weighing on her. I just have needs and sexual...

I feel for the both of you that you don't have any friends. I have them, but just can't talk about sex and other things that I want to share and get advice on. I guess that's why these forums are valuable. I just sometimes need to talk about my feelings, and share my thoughts, even ones that...

we have gone to counseling on an off for 6 years. yes, she is dealing with lots and having to process. thanks for listening and asking me questions, it helps. are you married?

I'm new at this forum, so not sure how it works. I just replied to you post. Not sure if it goes into public or not, but oh well. yes, 7 months since any sexual contact. I bet we only had sex 3-4 times in all of 2015 and haven't this year at all. yes, reasons for counseling are related to...

Wow, thanks for sharing. I feel for you and will pray for you. I know what you need by needing friends. I have a lot of friends, but none that I can really talk to about the hard stuff.

Thanks so much for your replies. It's so helpful to talk to other Christians about this. It's such a struggle for me. I feel that my walk with the Lord is the best that it's ever been, but this area of my life and marriage is so difficult. I do have desires and thoughts that are not godly...

My wife and I are both Christians, we love the Lord with all of our hearts. We have been married for over 20 years and have definitely had some struggles (finances mainly), but we deeply care for each other. We are in our early 40's and in pretty good shape. The problem is, she just won't...