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  1. Shattered-Reflections

    Relationships and asexuality

    I've been dealing with a lot and was cuddling with a friend. I love cuddling so very much, but then I was worried if the reason I loved it was because it was somehow sexual. After research and talking it out with others, I've come to realize asexuality explained a lot. It's been a relief. I've...
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    Family Issues

    My father has divorced my mother (by law she had no choice). It's become evidently clear that he's been having an affair for years and has been lying to his family for years. He has not told us yet, he's still hiding it. My dad has a sister, my aunt. I don't know her well but she's a bubbly...
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    Divorce and a life time of Grief

    My father has been living in another state because of a job for some years. He has told my mother he's divorcing her because she "won't change" and she "stresses him" and I personally think because of money disagreements. Because of the laws in our state my mother has no choice. She communicated...
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    Strained Friendship (Suicide)

    Disclaimer: This thread might come off as insensitive/unloving, if reading this would be hurtful to you this may not be the best thread to read. I've been reading that in order to help someone who is depressed/suicidal one should just listen, let them vent, and give no advice. This makes...
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    Just a life update.

    Perhaps to redeem myself a little for being an unsociable jerk and disappearing, this is just an update for those who care. There's been a lot going on. Last month while I was at my event for work my brother also moved out (a huge relief). I cleaned up my office and for the first time in a...
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    House Chores

    We all know house chores are important, but even those who like a clean house have chores they hate! And I know there are disorganized people who have chores they enjoy. So what about the chores you do at home. 1. Most hated, dreaded, chore? 2. Most enjoyable, relaxing, or fun chore...
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    Spiritual struggles with money...

    As a Christian... Do you struggle more to be content and have faith when you have little? Or Do you struggle more to be content and give when you have plenty? Explain, discuss, or just vote.
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    Other people's Depression

    I'd really prefer to get advice from those who have dealt with depression first hand or professionally. Not to be rude, but I don't want "good ideas" but what's actually true and what actually works. I have a brother who's dealing with a lot and is depressed. About a month ago he was suicidal...
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    Sharing your Dreams ;)

    Just for fun :) Feel free to answers any of the questions below. Whatever you feel like sharing <3 What kind of dreams do you normally have? Nightmares, crazy incomprehensible dreams, lucid dreams, pleasant dreams, romantic dreams, flying dream, falling dreams, work related dreams...
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    New questions for Last 10 game

    Because this needs it's own topic. Owlette and I have decided we'd create a new "Last 10 Game" set of questions. So why not just have everyone give their input ;) If we get an excess of great questions, then we can use them for next time :D #1 - #2 - #3 - #4 - #5 - #6 - #7 -...
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    Home Life

    Are you living with family currently, roomies, friends, or living by yourself? How do you feel about your current living situation? Would you change it if you could? Does living with others drive you crazy or does it help ease the single life? If you're living alone, are you more content...
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    Does Biology Matter?

    No wrong or right here, just looking for discussion. Since children have been on topic... Dose it matter to you if the child you are raising is biologically yours? Dose it make a difference or are children just children to be loved and brought up with goodness? If you want your own...
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    Do your parents pester you about marriage?

    Do your parents pester you about marriage? Why or why not? If not your parents, do other family members or friends pester, nudge, or tease you about not being married?
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    Crush Conformity

    Is conforming to your crush's likes and dislikes just a natural occurrence that's nearly impossible to avoid? Or is it immaturity and insecurity? What are you experiences? Thoughts? Opinions? Just a thought that came to me while looking at threads here (...I'll post my thoughts later :) )
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    Q&A Video Message

    Fashionable late here. I wanted to do one of those Q&A video messages for fun ^_^ People don't know me too well on here, so feel free to ask me anything whether silly or serious, casual or personal. Though I'll reserve the right to ignore questions I don't like :P
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    Marriage advice for the non-Christian

    This may not be the right place for this, but I was hoping someone could recommend a book. Book Advice? My mother is leaving tomorrow morning to help with my brother's and his wife. For time's sake I won't go into all the details, but neither one of them seem to know how to treat each other...
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    MBTI personality results

    Since there was talk about extroversion and introversion earlier, let's talk about MBTI and how you guys score. Bare in mind, this isn't a science. It's merely a crude tool and a guide in understanding what might be underlying motivators in how we interact with the world around us. Please don't...
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    Drama, theft, and lies

    I've been attending this small group of well established Christians mixed with new converts & new members. It was a way to help new-comers feel welcomed while learning how to deal with practical life problems in a Christian way. The leader of the group had to leave for awhile, and without his...
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    Best why to make a shy guy comfortable?

    For those who want to skip the story: What's the best way to approach a shy guy who likes you? How can the girl make it easier for him? What should a girl avoid doing? -- So a recap, months ago I asked for advice because I was introduced to this shy guy. We didn't become friends and didn't...
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    Difficulties Approaching People

    I realize I'm introverted and not good with small talk, but it's really hit me today that I struggle to approach people. I often feel like I'm being rude or being selfish for their time, even when I know they like talking with me or wanted to talk. I've run into 3 instances in the last two...