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Why Don't More Christians Share the Gospel?

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Those would be objections to the content, not the delivery.
But that's precisely my point.
If I stood in the town square and loudly announced that everyone could come and receive a free $100, I doubt many people would object to the delivery. They'd probably gather to hear more.
The exact same method of public proclamation becomes "offensive" only when the content is the Gospel.
That's why I don't think it's as easy as separating delivery from content. People's reaction to the delivery is often shaped by what is being delivered.
So how do we determine whether people are objecting to the method itself or simply to the message being proclaimed?

Again, you’re conflating content with method.
The very same delivery can be welcomed or rejected depending on the content. Therefore, you cannot simply conclude that the hostility is caused by the delivery. As explained just above, if it were a good content, people would accept it. People happily gather for concerts, political speeches, public announcements, buskers, comedians, market criers, and sporting events. So public speaking is not inherently the problem. The objection arises because of what is being proclaimed, not merely how it is is proclaimed.
This is such an odd question. Just from a purely practical perspective, why would you still advocate for it if the audience has grown less receptive to it?

But I’ve already explained this answer: it’s, essentially, a flippant treatment of a very weighty topic. By treating it flippantly, the preacher disrespects the material and disrespects the listener by not taking seriously what’s being asked of them.
I don't think you've actually answered my question.
I didn't ask why you think public proclamation is ineffective or why you find it disrespectful. I asked where Scripture teaches that public proclamation becomes an unloving method because culture has changed. So, I do not want your opinion. I want you to back up your understanding that public proclamation is an unloving method because culture has changed by using a bible verse.
So far, you've given me a pragmatic argument ("people are less receptive") and a personal assessment ("it feels flippant"). But neither of those answers the biblical question.
If effectiveness becomes the standard, then many of the prophets would have been considered failures. Jesus Himself was rejected by the majority, and Paul was mocked, beaten, imprisoned, and driven from city to city. Their faithfulness wasn't measured by how receptive the culture was, but by their obedience to God's command.

You say that public proclamation treats the Gospel flippantly. I would suggest the opposite. It elevates it.
If we truly believe the Gospel is the power of God unto salvation and that every person will one day stand before God, then why would we want to limit who hears it? The Gospel is the greatest message ever given to mankind. Wanting as many people as possible to hear it isn't treating it lightly; it's treating it as infinitely valuable.
Public proclamation doesn't diminish the Gospel. It magnifies it by declaring that this message isn't just for my family, my friends, or those who happen to enter my circle. It is good news for every person who will listen.
I struggle to see how taking the Gospel beyond our immediate circle and offering it freely to anyone who will hear could be described as treating it flippantly. To me, it reflects the very heart of Christ, who commanded us to "go into all the world and preach the Gospel to every creature."
So, sadly, it is you who does not hold the Gospel up highly.

Now, I'll ask the question one last time: where does Scripture teach that a method repeatedly used by Jesus and the apostles has become unloving because modern culture dislikes it?

Sadly, from what I hear from you, you seem to be arguing that you do not care if people do not hear the Gospel. You want your friends to hear but those who you do not know, you care very little for.
 
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On the street, how can we differentiate ourselves from prosperity gospel preachers, Christian Nationalists, and “the end is near” preaching. “Unless you believe as I believe, you are damned”.

How about more “I was lost and Christ changed my life. Would you like to hear how?”

“Something wonderful happened to me and completely changed me and it can happen to you as well.”

“Would you like a peace and joy nothing can disturb?”
We should be clear, warm, and not unnecessarily combative in how we speak to people. Personal testimony also has real value in opening conversation.
But I think we need to be careful not to reduce the Gospel to “something wonderful happened to me, and it can happen to you too.” That risks shifting the focus from Christ’s objective work to my subjective experience.
The message of the Gospel is not primarily that my life changed, but that Christ died for our sins, was raised, and calls all people everywhere to repent and believe.
Paul makes that distinction quite sharply: “I am not ashamed of the Gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation” (Romans 1:16). The power is in the message about Christ, not in my personal transformation, though that may adorn the message.

So yes, testimony can open a door. But the content that saves is still the announcement of Christ crucified for our sins and that He is risen, not merely an invitation to a better personal experience.
 
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But that's precisely my point.
If I stood in the town square and loudly announced that everyone could come and receive a free $100, I doubt many people would object to the delivery. They'd probably gather to hear more.

Ok, fair point. It’s combination of the delivery and the message that matters, with some messages being better received in some contexts than others.

So how do we determine whether people are objecting to the method itself or simply to the message being proclaimed?

Teasing out whether people are acting in good faith is challenging in any context. I can only speak for myself, here.

People happily gather for concerts, political speeches, public announcements, buskers, comedians, market criers, and sporting events. So public speaking is not inherently the problem. The objection arises because of what is being proclaimed, not merely how it is is proclaimed.

Describing all of those as “public speaking” papers over some pretty significant differences. Preaching in a church is “public speaking” and I haven’t said a word about that.

I don't think you've actually answered my question.
I didn't ask why you think public proclamation is ineffective or why you find it disrespectful. I asked where Scripture teaches that public proclamation becomes an unloving method because culture has changed. So, I do not want your opinion. I want you to back up your understanding that public proclamation is an unloving method because culture has changed by using a bible verse.

It’s unloving precisely because it’s anathema culturally.

So far, you've given me a pragmatic argument

That’s all this is.

Sadly, from what I hear from you, you seem to be arguing that you do not care if people do not hear the Gospel. You want your friends to hear but those who you do not know, you care very little for.

All right. I think I’m done. As I said before, it’s pretty clear why you’re so defensive of a method of communication that so many others find presumptuous and disrespectful.
 
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It’s unloving precisely because it’s anathema culturally.
Just to clarify your wording, “anathema” means culturally rejected or regarded as unacceptable.
So your argument is essentially that public proclamation is unloving because modern Western culture finds it offensive.
But that still doesn’t answer my question, which is about biblical authority, not cultural reaction.
Where does Scripture teach that a method becomes unloving because a culture disapproves of it?
Because if cultural rejection is the standard, then the same charge would apply to Jesus, John the Baptist, and the apostles, whose public preaching was not only unpopular but often violently rejected.
So I’m still asking for a scriptural basis, not a cultural one.
That’s all this is.
So, it is just your opinion and not biblical. OK. Thank you.
All right. I think I’m done. As I said before, it’s pretty clear why you’re so defensive of a method of communication that so many others find presumptuous and disrespectful.
I hope that our discussion, however hard it may have been for you, showed you that public evangelism, in whatever form it is, should be held highly and not flippantly.
I pray that your love for God and the lost grows. I pray to that you see your sin truly for what it is and then also see the magnificence of the cross, then you will have an overflowing of gratefulness within your heart that will overflow. And whatever you cannot express with words of thanks, I pray that it is expressed in deeds. Save the lost.
Blessings.
 
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I hope that our discussion, however had it may have been for you, showed you that public evangelism, in whatever form it is, should be held highly and not flippantly.

Quite the opposite.
 
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Someone once told the following of their salvation..

He said when he was young he was drinking, smoking, doing drugs now and then. Not living a good life as it were.
He said he met lots of people that told him he was going to hell. He said most of them actually seemed fairly happy about that fact and he got impression they wouldn't mind if he hurried up and got there. He admitted it turned him off to the gospel.
Then he said one day, he met a man that told him he was going to hell, and it seemed to break this man's heart. He said this guy seemed to want to help him. He listened, it took time. Months. But this guy eventually led him to the Lord.

The young man in that story went to become a pastor - for 30years.

Sometimes delivery does make a difference.

If you've ever went fishing, worked with rope, or cords, or thread or string - you have likely encountered a hopeless tangle in your line before.

To me, the lost are kind of like that. Hopelessly tangled.

Sometimes, when you are working with a tangled rope you can give it a big jerk and the tangle will come free. Other times, that big jerk will just make the tangle tighter and even harder to work free. For those, it takes a slower and more careful approach.

I've found the unsaved tangled in sin are much like that tangled length of rope. A big dose of the gospel delivered with enthusiasm and volume may set them free, or they may say "what a big jerk" and tighten up, and become more resistant to the Word. For those, the slower and more careful approach seems to work better. It takes some discernment to know which will work with which people. Sometimes it is a combination.

The above is just what I've discovered. There is no "one size fits all" method that works 100% of the time for every giver or receiver of the message.
 
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We should be clear, warm, and not unnecessarily combative in how we speak to people. Personal testimony also has real value in opening conversation.
But I think we need to be careful not to reduce the Gospel to “something wonderful happened to me, and it can happen to you too.” That risks shifting the focus from Christ’s objective work to my subjective experience.
The message of the Gospel is not primarily that my life changed, but that Christ died for our sins, was raised, and calls all people everywhere to repent and believe.
Paul makes that distinction quite sharply: “I am not ashamed of the Gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation” (Romans 1:16). The power is in the message about Christ, not in my personal transformation, though that may adorn the message.

So yes, testimony can open a door. But the content that saves is still the announcement of Christ crucified for our sins and that He is risen, not merely an invitation to a better personal experience.
Of course, that means first convincing people that they need to be saved. Right? That they come into this world sinful and damned in need of a savior.

I would be more cautious about a highly cognitive approach. Changing minds is different than changing hearts. I don't think it is wise to undervalue personal testimony.
 
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Someone once told the following of their salvation..

He said when he was young he was drinking, smoking, doing drugs now and then. Not living a good life as it were.
He said he met lots of people that told him he was going to hell. He said most of them actually seemed fairly happy about that fact and he got impression they wouldn't mind if he hurried up and got there. He admitted it turned him off to the gospel.
Then he said one day, he met a man that told him he was going to hell, and it seemed to break this man's heart. He said this guy seemed to want to help him. He listened, it took time. Months. But this guy eventually led him to the Lord.

The young man in that story went to become a pastor - for 30years.

Sometimes delivery does make a difference.

If you've ever went fishing, worked with rope, or cords, or thread or string - you have likely encountered a hopeless tangle in your line before.

To me, the lost are kind of like that. Hopelessly tangled.

Sometimes, when you are working with a tangled rope you can give it a big jerk and the tangle will come free. Other times, that big jerk will just make the tangle tighter and even harder to work free. For those, it takes a slower and more careful approach.

I've found the unsaved tangled in sin are much like that tangled length of rope. A big dose of the gospel delivered with enthusiasm and volume may set them free, or they may say "what a big jerk" and tighten up, and become more resistant to the Word. For those, the slower and more careful approach seems to work better. It takes some discernment to know which will work with which people. Sometimes it is a combination.

The above is just what I've discovered. There is no "one size fits all" method that works 100% of the time for every giver or receiver of the message.
I think you've made an important point here, and I actually agree with much of what you've said.
Scripture tells us to give an answer "with gentleness and respect" (1 Peter 3:15). So our delivery does matter. We should never delight in telling people they are under God's judgment, nor should we come across as though we are happy for them to perish. Paul himself said he had "great sorrow and unceasing anguish" for his fellow Israelites (Romans 9:2), and Jesus wept over Jerusalem. Our message should be spoken with genuine love and compassion.

Where I would differ is if someone concludes from that that public proclamation itself is therefore wrong. I don't think that follows.
The problem in your first example wasn't that the Gospel was proclaimed publicly, it was that it was proclaimed without the love and compassion that ought to accompany it. There are poor examples of public preaching (Westboro Baptist is one), just as there are poor examples of personal 1 to 1 friendship evangelism. But there are also faithful examples of both (Living Waters for public evangelism).

So, I think we actually agree on the principle: delivery matters weather it is one to one with a friend or if publicly spoken. What I don't think Scripture allows us to say is that because some preach condemningly or badly, or because some listeners respond badly, public proclamation itself has become an unloving method. Jesus, John the Baptist, Peter, Paul, and the other apostles all proclaimed the Gospel publicly, yet they did so out of deep love for those who heard them. And even though they preached with a deep love, they still had people who hated their message as the Gospel is offensive to those who do not believe. So, if someone does not like the message, that is not a sign that public preaching is not for today.

For me, the biblical balance is this: proclaim the truth boldly, but always with tears rather than triumph, with compassion rather than contempt, and with gentleness and respect rather than arrogance.

Maybe Iluavatar5150 has seen much preaching with arrogance and condemnation (such as Westboro Baptist) and so therefore has a hatred towards it. Maybe he should study public evangelism done with gentleness and respect (You never know, he may become really good at it). (Check out Living Waters on YouTube, also Todd Friel has some really good discussions in public)
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Of course, that means first convincing people that they need to be saved. Right? That they come into this world sinful and damned in need of a savior.

I would be more cautious about a highly cognitive approach. Changing minds is different than changing hearts. I don't think it is wise to undervalue personal testimony.
I don't think we're actually that far apart.
I'm certainly not undervaluing personal testimony. I think testimony is a wonderful way to open a conversation and to demonstrate the reality of Christ's work in a person's life.
Nor do I think conversion is merely cognitive. The Holy Spirit changes hearts, not just minds.

My concern is simply that we don't replace the Gospel with our testimony. A testimony explains what Christ has done for me; the Gospel proclaims what Christ has done for sinners. Those are closely related, but they're not identical.

You're also right that people need to understand why they need a Saviour. That's why Jesus, the apostles, and Paul all spoke about sin, repentance, judgment, and forgiveness. The good news only makes sense when we first understand the bad news.
I do street evangelism and I have not shied away from using the law just because it is uncomfortable. And because I do not shy away from it, I have seen people convicted of their sin and express a desire to start honouring God. And these are people I have never met. So, you do not have to build up a relationship with a person.
Sadly, many Christians have come to think that a relationship must always precede sharing the Gospel as this seems to be what most churches have moved towards. It is less confrontational and easier doing relational evangelism, but Satan is rubbing his hands as the Gospel is being limited to just those whom you know.
While relationships are a wonderful context for evangelism, I don't believe Scripture makes them a prerequisite.
Hebrews 10:28 "How then shall they call on Him in whom they have not believed? And how shall they believe in Him of whom they have not heard? And how shall they hear without a preacher?"

So, I see testimony as a servant of the Gospel, not its substitute. It can open the door, but the message that saves is still Christ crucified, risen, and calling all people to repent and believe.
 
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I think you've made an important point here, and I actually agree with much of what you've said.
Scripture tells us to give an answer "with gentleness and respect" (1 Peter 3:15). So our delivery does matter. We should never delight in telling people they are under God's judgment, nor should we come across as though we are happy for them to perish. Paul himself said he had "great sorrow and unceasing anguish" for his fellow Israelites (Romans 9:2), and Jesus wept over Jerusalem. Our message should be spoken with genuine love and compassion.

Where I would differ is if someone concludes from that that public proclamation itself is therefore wrong. I don't think that follows.
The problem in your first example wasn't that the Gospel was proclaimed publicly, it was that it was proclaimed without the love and compassion that ought to accompany it. There are poor examples of public preaching (Westboro Baptist is one), just as there are poor examples of personal 1 to 1 friendship evangelism. But there are also faithful examples of both (Living Waters for public evangelism).

So, I think we actually agree on the principle: delivery matters weather it is one to one with a friend or if publicly spoken. What I don't think Scripture allows us to say is that because some preach condemningly or badly, or because some listeners respond badly, public proclamation itself has become an unloving method. Jesus, John the Baptist, Peter, Paul, and the other apostles all proclaimed the Gospel publicly, yet they did so out of deep love for those who heard them. And even though they preached with a deep love, they still had people who hated their message as the Gospel is offensive to those who do not believe. So, if someone does not like the message, that is not a sign that public preaching is not for today.

For me, the biblical balance is this: proclaim the truth boldly, but always with tears rather than triumph, with compassion rather than contempt, and with gentleness and respect rather than arrogance.

Maybe Iluavatar5150 has seen much preaching with arrogance and condemnation (such as Westboro Baptist) and so therefore has a hatred towards it. Maybe he should study public evangelism done with gentleness and respect (You never know, he may become really good at it). (Check out Living Waters on YouTube, also Todd Friel has some really good discussions in public)
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I don't think we're actually that far apart.
I'm certainly not undervaluing personal testimony. I think testimony is a wonderful way to open a conversation and to demonstrate the reality of Christ's work in a person's life.
Nor do I think conversion is merely cognitive. The Holy Spirit changes hearts, not just minds.

My concern is simply that we don't replace the Gospel with our testimony. A testimony explains what Christ has done for me; the Gospel proclaims what Christ has done for sinners. Those are closely related, but they're not identical.

You're also right that people need to understand why they need a Saviour. That's why Jesus, the apostles, and Paul all spoke about sin, repentance, judgment, and forgiveness. The good news only makes sense when we first understand the bad news.
I do street evangelism and I have not shied away from using the law just because it is uncomfortable. And because I do not shy away from it, I have seen people convicted of their sin and express a desire to start honouring God. And these are people I have never met. So, you do not have to build up a relationship with a person.
Sadly, many Christians have come to think that a relationship must always precede sharing the Gospel as this seems to be what most churches have moved towards. It is less confrontational and easier doing relational evangelism, but Satan is rubbing his hands as the Gospel is being limited to just those whom you know.
While relationships are a wonderful context for evangelism, I don't believe Scripture makes them a prerequisite.
Hebrews 10:28 "How then shall they call on Him in whom they have not believed? And how shall they believe in Him of whom they have not heard? And how shall they hear without a preacher?"

So, I see testimony as a servant of the Gospel, not its substitute. It can open the door, but the message that saves is still Christ crucified, risen, and calling all people to repent and believe.
That seems so transactional. A price needed to be paid. Jesus paid it and all we have to do is believe? What about knowing and loving him.
 
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That seems so transactional. A price needed to be paid. Jesus paid it and all we have to do is believe? What about knowing and loving him.
Saving faith is far more than simply agreeing that Jesus existed or that He died. Biblical belief is a trust that commits itself to Christ.
When a person truly believes that Christ died for their sins and rose again, that faith doesn't remain alone. It produces love for Him, a desire to know Him, repentance, and obedience. Those aren't an alternative to faith, they are the fruit of genuine faith.
So yes, we are justified through faith in Christ, but the faith that justifies is never a dead or empty faith. As James says, "faith without works is dead."

The Gospel isn't merely, "Believe these facts and carry on as before." It is, "Trust in the Lord Jesus Christ," and that trust transforms the whole person.
 
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Saving faith is far more than simply agreeing that Jesus existed or that He died. Biblical belief is a trust that commits itself to Christ.
When a person truly believes that Christ died for their sins and rose again, that faith doesn't remain alone. It produces love for Him, a desire to know Him, repentance, and obedience. Those aren't an alternative to faith, they are the fruit of genuine faith.
So yes, we are justified through faith in Christ, but the faith that justifies is never a dead or empty faith. As James says, "faith without works is dead."

The Gospel isn't merely, "Believe these facts and carry on as before." It is, "Trust in the Lord Jesus Christ," and that trust transforms the whole person.
Yes, I am just poking at you a little bit.
 
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Why would you do that?
Because we all need to be prepared for all kinds of responses, questions, challenges and alternate perspectives. OP asks why more Christians don’t share the Gospel. Because we all have different understandings of what that can mean, different approaches to scripture and discerning our call and response.
 
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Something I have been thinking about over the last few days:
As I said earlier, I believe that the Gospel has been limited as many churches have chosen to focus almost exclusively on relationship or friendship evangelism. We should certainly share the gospel with our family and friends, that is both natural and right. But Christ calls us to go further than that.

Every Christian should share the gospel with family and friends. But if we never go beyond that, what credit is there? Jesus said, "Even sinners love those who love them" (Luke 6:32). The love of Christ reaches beyond what is natural. It reaches strangers, neighbours, and even enemies. Our evangelism should do the same. If we only share the gospel with those we know, we leave those outside our circle without hearing the greatest message they could ever receive. Jesus loved all people, and if Christ lives in us, our love should reach beyond those we already know.

The gospel is the greatest gift we can ever give someone. Naturally, we should give that gift to those we love. But even sinful people give good gifts to those they love. Jesus calls us to a higher standard. He calls us to love beyond our natural relationships. So let us proclaim the gospel not only to our friends, but also to those outside our circle.
 
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