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Christian nationalist pastor McPherson: "Empathy is aligned with hell."

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As near as I can make out, you believe that we're in the midst of the Zombie Apocalypse, and everyone outside of the church walls is one of the zombies.

Is that pretty much your position in a nutshell?
God's position is what matters. Those outside of Christ are lost on the broad road that leads to destruction. I learned that from Jesus.
 
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Good analogy. Imagine if there was grandstanding along those lines. With the Church advocating, defending and celebrating divorce.

You didn't answer the question. Does your church condone remarriage... i.e. adultery?
 
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Your response to my previous post will go quite a ways toward demonstrating whether you actually believe that this is true.
If you replace the melodramatic science fiction term with the realistic biblical term of lost, then yes, I believe what the Bible says about those who are outside of Christ who are lost.
 
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You didn't answer the question. Does your church condone remarriage... i.e. adultery?
I don't have a church. The Church belongs to Christ. Therefore if Christ doesn't condone it, then His Church shouldn't condone it. Much less advocate, defend, and celebrate it.
 
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I don't have a church. The Church belongs to Christ. Therefore if Christ doesn't condone it, then His Church shouldn't condone it. Much less advocate, defend, and celebrate it.

This is true, brother Servus, but it also seems to me that Christian Nationalists of the Right aren't giving much lip service to the authentic teaching of Christ on the issue of expressing compassion (and grace, mercy and love) to a lost world.
 
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This is true, brother Servus, but it also seems to me that Christian Nationalists of the Right aren't giving much lip service to the authentic teaching of Christ on the issue of expressing compassion (and grace, mercy and love) to a lost world.
How is it supposed to be expressed according to everything that Christ taught?
 
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How is it supposed to be expressed according to everything that Christ taught?

For me, it would be something along the lines of what I explained in a post over in another related thread on empathy:

 
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If you replace the melodramatic science fiction term with the realistic biblical term of lost, then yes, I believe what the Bible says about those who are outside of Christ who are lost.
I don't have a church. The Church belongs to Christ. Therefore if Christ doesn't condone it, then His Church shouldn't condone it. Much less advocate, defend, and celebrate it.

I'm going to take this as a 'yes', the church of which you're a member condones overt, ongoing, and unrepentant adultery.

So your whole claim of it being God's position that matters to you was just a delusion.
 
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The problem is the reach of secularism within the Church and Christianity. True Christianity is laying everything aside to follow Christ and seek holiness. Many look at Jesus' command to give up on worldly things they love as oppression. False Christianity is the idea that it's okay to hold onto what you're supposed to repent of and turn away from.
I don't see that a gay Christian or even a gay Minister as being secular. Far from it. Both worship Jesus. And one even teaches Jesus. But along the same lines, I'm also unable to see the empathy that a Church might feel for those whom their religion has oppressed and wanting to correct that wrong as being a bad thing. Where I sit is that I don't think anyone can follow Christ with out opening their heart to Humanity. That's what Jesus taught us. The Gay community is part of Humanity. And God's Love rain's down upon each and everyone of us.
 
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I'm going to take this as a 'yes', the church of which you're a member condones overt, ongoing, and unrepentant adultery.

So your whole claim of it being God's position that matters to you was just a delusion.
Since I said Therefore if Christ doesn't condone it, then His Church shouldn't condone it - it should be blatantly obvious that I would not attended a church that condoned it. Therefore you're conclusion is ridiculous.
 
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Since I said Therefore if Christ doesn't condone it, then His Church shouldn't condone it - it should be blatantly obvious that I would not attended a church that condoned it. Therefore you're conclusion is ridiculous.

You just had to go and stick that 'if' in there. So I'll ask the question again:

Does the church that you attend allow its divorced members to remarry?

Yes or no this time.
 
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I don't see that a gay Christian or even a gay Minister as being secular. Far from it. Both worship Jesus. And one even teaches Jesus. But along the same lines, I'm also unable to see the empathy that a Church might feel for those whom their religion has oppressed and wanting to correct that wrong as being a bad thing. Where I sit is that I don't think anyone can follow Christ with out opening their heart to Humanity. That's what Jesus taught us. The Gay community is part of Humanity. And God's Love rain's down upon each and everyone of us.
What's secular is mainstreaming LGBTQQIP2SA+ into Christianity ie making it an aspect of Christianity.

There is only one "G" in LGBTQQIP2SA+. Therefore it's about incorporating the the whole chaotic maelstrom of innumerable sexual desires and made up genders into Christianity. Like "trans pansexual omni-gender two-spirit". The way Christians help people trapped in such chaos, is trying to get them onto the narrow path to salvation, rather than indulging their fleshly lusts and delusions.
 
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You just had to go and stick that 'if' in there. So I'll ask the question again:

Does the church that you attend allow its divorced members to remarry?

Yes or no this time.
It's not a flat out yes or no question.

Text with the pastor of the church I attend:

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That's the standard used by most churches that I know of.

IDK why phone screenshots always come out so huge.

Now is the reason why you're asking this in various ways, so that you can basically say "Ah ha! your church condones / allows adultery, but condemns LGBTQQIP2SA+! Oh the hypocrisy!". Is that where you're going with this?
 
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Now is the reason why you're asking this in various ways, so that you can basically say "Ah ha! your church condones / allows adultery, but condemns LGBTQQIP2SA+! Oh the hypocrisy!". Is that where you're going with this?

Yes
 
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And you're determined to claim that result no matter what, right?

I really dislike manipulation tactics where a person plays around attempting to be a sly fox in order to try trapping someone into a "gotcha!". Please refrain from doing that in the future.
 
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For me, it would be something along the lines of what I explained in a post over in another related thread on empathy:

The general claim is that Christians are supposed to have empathy. And that empathy is supposed to result in Christians accepting, endorsing, advocating, defending, indulging and even celebrating LGBTQQIP2SA+. It's all about manipulation and gaslighting.
 
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The general claim is that Christians are supposed to have empathy. And that empathy is supposed to result in Christians accepting, endorsing, advocating, defending, indulging and even celebrating LGBTQQIP2SA+. It's all about manipulation and gaslighting.

I don't think the usual use and denotation of empathy carries the connotations that some folks think it does. When I look at the usual reportage in the dictionaries, I'm not seeing much of anything that suggests 'endorsement' of other folks immorality or sin---or whatnot--- as a part of that disposition.


Let's be frank: it isn't really empathy that's the problem. It's the political ideology behind the current revision of empathy that is the problem, and the culprit is usually some form of anti-Christian antipathy that seeks to undermine the presence of the Christian faith in society at large.

We all know this. So, as it stands, we who are Christian need to not only learn to better empathize with other people who are suffering, but sympathize and even transcend mere empathy and sympathy by expressing genuine compassion------like Jesus did.

Somehow, though, where politics comes into play, many who identify themselves as Christian excuse themselves from compassion by attacking a 'toxic empathy.' Maybe they need to lay out more precisely what non-toxic empathy is? Then again, maybe they need to acknowledge the need for showing compassion and lay out what they think that is?
 
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I don't think the usual use and denotation of empathy carries the connotations that some folks think it does. When I look at the usual reportage in the dictionaries, I'm not seeing much of anything that suggests 'endorsement' of other folks immorality or sin---or whatnot--- as a part of that disposition.


Let's be frank: it isn't really empathy that's the problem. It's the political ideology behind the current revision of empathy that is the problem, and the culprit is usually some form of anti-Christian antipathy that seeks to undermine the presence of the Christian faith in society at large.

We all know this. So, as it stands, we who are Christian need to not only learn to better empathize with other people who are suffering, but sympathize and even transcend mere empathy and sympathy by expressing genuine compassion------like Jesus did.

Somehow, though, where politics comes into play, many who identify themselves as Christian excuse themselves from compassion by attacking a 'toxic empathy.' Maybe they need to lay out more precisely what non-toxic empathy is? Then again, maybe they need to acknowledge the need for showing compassion and lay out what they think that is?
This is real simple. The word empathy is being misused. It's being misused to guilt Christians into going along with what the secular world wants. It's very sly, very clever, very deceptive. And that should be very obvious. And it probably is to most everyone. But there are Christians who welcome secularism. They want to have it both ways. They want secularized Christianity.
 
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