- Apr 27, 2020
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- Christian
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I've noticed something in my life recently. I realized that I am (still) the daughter who is responsible for being like the emotional buffer. Something that happens occasionally is that I avoid talking about the central family problem/or I'm simply overwhelmed and sometimes I let my desire to be taken care of slip out. I consider the central family problem to be my main wound (please don't take me for being arrogant, I'm really not being arrogant, I just believe that the central family problem is also my main wound, this is to provide context).
So when I dare to talk about it or I'm simply overwhelmed and let it slip out, it seems that people (who I got along well with for a long time) act like my wound (act in a way that hurts, in this case).
It seems like God wants to tell me something with this, I don't know, I just avoid it and really do a lot to avoid confronting things in an attempt to help or fix something (?). I don't think this is the best idea, but it's what I prefer to do untill now.
But anyway, at the moment my biggest concern is knowing if this is some kind of sign and if anyone knows what it is. I say sign because, for example, what people consider a sign: a sign that God doesn't want you to be in a relationship with someone, and worse, I've seen several Christians reporting things like this happening, that, for example, in the case of relationships, some people come like "a stumbling block" to your purpose and some types of signs appear.And I know you have to be careful with signs.
But tell me what you think? Can something relate to this in your life (most likely some will)? And if you could explain to me what that would be.
Thank in advance and sorry for my english.
So when I dare to talk about it or I'm simply overwhelmed and let it slip out, it seems that people (who I got along well with for a long time) act like my wound (act in a way that hurts, in this case).
It seems like God wants to tell me something with this, I don't know, I just avoid it and really do a lot to avoid confronting things in an attempt to help or fix something (?). I don't think this is the best idea, but it's what I prefer to do untill now.
But anyway, at the moment my biggest concern is knowing if this is some kind of sign and if anyone knows what it is. I say sign because, for example, what people consider a sign: a sign that God doesn't want you to be in a relationship with someone, and worse, I've seen several Christians reporting things like this happening, that, for example, in the case of relationships, some people come like "a stumbling block" to your purpose and some types of signs appear.And I know you have to be careful with signs.
But tell me what you think? Can something relate to this in your life (most likely some will)? And if you could explain to me what that would be.
Thank in advance and sorry for my english.