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Wife getting massages

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Its so intriguing there have been 822 replies now.


How many do you think I would get if i announced my wife is ok with.. well, lets leave that to the imagination?

And then never post again!
 
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My wife has been going for massages for many years. I always assumed it was a spa setting with multiple people in the room. Turns out she is alone with a man for 50 minutes, door closed and shades drawn, covered by a sheet except for the body part being massaged, wearing only her bikini briefs, massage oil, everything except her bikini area and breasts are fair game for his hands directly on her skin. He is a licensed "massage therapist" and I have been assured it is completely non-sexual, just for relaxation and, as needed, working out a stiff back or sore neck, that sort of thing. This has me upset. I feel like I should have been told years ago exactly what the circumstances were. Does this make anyone else uncomfortable? Am I just too insecure? I don't believe it will lead to any actual impropriety or infidelity, but I don't like the idea of another man running his hands all over her feet, legs, thighs, shoulders etc. in private using massage oils. Thoughts?
You are describing a typical professional message. Are you similarly disturbed when i.e. she is disrobed for a medical exam by a male doctor?
 
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It's amazing so many are squeamish about any being disrobed at a place another works at with an expectation of that. And God did not make us for being squeamish about anyone's body being seen, our own or another's who we care about.
 
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It's amazing so many are squeamish about any being disrobed at a place another works at with an expectation of that. And God did not make us for being squeamish about anyone's body being seen, our own or another's who we care about.
well, its like kevin spacey said.

everything is about sex.
except sex, which is about power.
 
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Not sure Kevin Spacey is the guy I’d look to quote in this scenario.
well, the husband of the wife getting massages would understand....

---- THIS IS YOUR WEEKLY REMINDER HE HAS NOT POSTED BUT ONCE IN THIS 829 Response Thread!_____
 
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well, the husband of the wife getting massages would understand....

---- THIS IS YOUR WEEKLY REMINDER HE HAS NOT POSTED BUT ONCE IN THIS 829 Response Thread!_____
We can’t know what he would understand seeing as he posted this then fell off the planet.

I suspect it’s Mothman’s doing.
 
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well, the husband of the wife getting massages would understand....

---- THIS IS YOUR WEEKLY REMINDER HE HAS NOT POSTED BUT ONCE IN THIS 829 Response Thread!_____
Put a stake in its heart and call it a day. One thing I can say… this thread has taught me a lot as far as what peaks poster’s interests and it not particularly good.
 
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Put a stake in its heart and call it a day. One thing I can say… this thread has taught me a lot as far as what peaks poster’s interests and it not particularly good.
Yes, let it end,,,,,please
 
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Put a stake in its heart and call it a day. One thing I can say… this thread has taught me a lot as far as what peaks poster’s interests and it not particularly good.
shall i count the number of times you have replied to it?

maybe AI can give me an estimate of the time everyone has wasted...
 
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