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Episcopal Church Executive Council member resigns over 'white comfort,' 'oppressive systems'

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A lay member of The Episcopal Church Executive Council has resigned, believing that the mainline denomination's leadership failed to be more inclusive of minorities.

Sandra Teresa Soledad Montes Vela, a lay Executive Council member who identifies as pansexual, took to Facebook on Oct. 23 to announce her resignation from the church leadership body.

“October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. I must also name spiritual and institutional violence," she stated in a post quoted by Episcopal News Service.

"I've been reminded that love without safety is not love, and faith without truth is not faith. I can no longer keep going back to be hurt, hoping the cycle has ended."

In a follow-up Facebook post on Oct. 24, Montes said that she refused "to let the Episcopal Church's wounds and oppressive systems become part of my narrative."

"My voice has been consistent — calling for Spanish language justice, Indigenous justice, Latinx justice, and queer celebration, not tolerance. That work doesn't end with my resignation," she stated.

"I pray my departure brings even a little change. Maybe without the 'aggressive and scary' Brown, Indigenous, Latinx, Queer, cis, fat woman with an 'undesirable' accent, and a voice too loud and angry in the room … Executive Council will look inward and face what I named in every meeting."

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That's....interesting....considering how inclusive the Episcopal Church has been for decades.

I wondered about that. I don't know this particular person, or the particular situation. In principle, we intend to be inclusive across lines of gender, ethnicity, sexual orientation, native language, and so on. Possibly this committee isn't living up to its principles -- it's easier to talk about principles than to live them. Or possibly there are abrasive personalities on the committee who are clashing with each other. I really don't know anything about the inner workings of the committee, beyond what I read in the ENS article.
 
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