- May 10, 2011
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There is an inside joke with people who moved here from other states that goes "Minnesota nice is Minnesota ice." There is a culture of being "nice" to people while hiding their disdain. Many of the more conservative churches believe that the love of Christ only extends to those who deserve it and that if you are poor, it's due to your own moral failing. Many don't believe in the propetual cycle of poverty and chalk it up to people not working hard enough."Nice" is actually a pretty low bar, or it used to be, and often just means people will do the socially respectable thing but get back at you passive-aggressively later.
I remember being on the middle school basketball team as a six-footer, getting massive rebounds. These old guys loved me when we got the victory but their daughters had to keep our friendship a secret or risk being disowned. One girl used to tell me what her dad and his friends and family used to say while watching basketball and it was thoroughly offensive but when they see me in school it was nothing but high fives and smiles. It was a good lesson to learn young.
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