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My grandmothers cancer is getting worse

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So I've known for years and years that my grandmother has had multiple kinds of cancer. I've known since high school that she's had Lukemia but I've never known that my grandmother has had colon cancer since I was in high school as well. My mom hasn't really been keeping me up to date on her mom and I just recently lost an uncle to Lung Cancer. It killed him pretty quickly and they couldn't do anything for him. My grandmother is the only grandparent I have left and she has lived for all of these years with her cancer (I graduated high school way back in 2004 so she's had her cancer for well over 20 years) so she should be considered lucky and she is 94 years old but I just don't want to see her go. Her cancers have always been in a low stage and non dangerous and they've only just recently jumped into the danger zone to where she could die within the next few months to next year.

When my dad's parents passed away I was devastated and my wife had to try to pick up the pieces of my shattered life and when my mom's dad passed away I didn't have her to console me but now it's becoming all too real. My sister and I are our grandmother's favorite grandchildren and she barely even remembers who we are anymore. She used to send us cards every year for our birthday and then she started to forget our birthdays which was totally unlike her.

It's becoming time to let go of my last grandparent I am afterall almost 40 years old and I'm lucky to still have a living grandparent at my age but, I just don't want to let go. Please pray for us and pray that my grandmother goes peacefully or optimistically dies from old age and not cancer.
 

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So I've known for years and years that my grandmother has had multiple kinds of cancer. I've known since high school that she's had Lukemia but I've never known that my grandmother has had colon cancer since I was in high school as well.

It's becoming time to let go of my last grandparent I am after all almost 40 years old and I'm lucky to still have a living grandparent at my age but, I just don't want to let go. Please pray for us and pray that my grandmother goes peacefully or optimistically dies from old age and not cancer.
I will pray for her, that she goes peacefully into the arms of Jesus Christ, or that she is given more life, but a life without cancer.
 
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Thanks. It actually came up the other day when I was visiting the Proctologist for a personal problem. My mom happened to bring me to the appointment because my wife had to work that day and it was the only day he could see me. Well it came up if there was any history of cancer in my family and I said my grandmother has lukemia and my dad's mother died of cancer as well although what kind neither of us really knew. But my mom said that her mom also had colon cancer and then she brought up what stage it was in and that she wasn't going to be around much longer. And then she mentioned that my uncle died of lung cancer which I knew he died of cancer but not what kind because he kept his cancer secret from the family until he died.

So I didn't know for over 20 years that my grandma had colon cancer so my wife was glad my mom went to that appointment because that was great for the proctologist to know. Our family's cancer history is kind of hidden because we don't like talking about it. I just know it runs in our family and I'm likely to get it one day. That's all I know.
 
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Thanks. It actually came up the other day when I was visiting the Proctologist for a personal problem. My mom happened to bring me to the appointment because my wife had to work that day and it was the only day he could see me. Well it came up if there was any history of cancer in my family and I said my grandmother has lukemia and my dad's mother died of cancer as well although what kind neither of us really knew. But my mom said that her mom also had colon cancer and then she brought up what stage it was in and that she wasn't going to be around much longer. And then she mentioned that my uncle died of lung cancer which I knew he died of cancer but not what kind because he kept his cancer secret from the family until he died.

So I didn't know for over 20 years that my grandma had colon cancer so my wife was glad my mom went to that appointment because that was great for the proctologist to know. Our family's cancer history is kind of hidden because we don't like talking about it. I just know it runs in our family and I'm likely to get it one day. That's all I know.
You are welcome.
 
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I pray for your comfort and strength for the lady and her family, and that when she goes it would be with out pain or suffering. Please bless her lord. And I pray in her coma or not someone or you would let her hear about the gospel and heaven and extract a confession of faith from her. Please Lord!? This is all important. Please lead her to faith in Jesus. In Jesus Name, Amen.

and I think more of us should pray this.
 
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I pray for your comfort and strength for the lady and her family, and that when she goes it would be with out pain or suffering. Please bless her lord. And I pray in her coma or not someone or you would let her hear about the gospel and heaven and extract a confession of faith from her. Please Lord!? This is all important. Please lead her to faith in Jesus. In Jesus Name, Amen.

and I think more of us should pray this.
That was a good prayer. We need people to hear and take the Gospel to heart, so I pray that the Holy Spirit may bless her with the gift of Salvation through Jesus Christ. Amen.
 
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So I've known for years and years that my grandmother has had multiple kinds of cancer. I've known since high school that she's had Lukemia but I've never known that my grandmother has had colon cancer since I was in high school as well. My mom hasn't really been keeping me up to date on her mom and I just recently lost an uncle to Lung Cancer. It killed him pretty quickly and they couldn't do anything for him. My grandmother is the only grandparent I have left and she has lived for all of these years with her cancer (I graduated high school way back in 2004 so she's had her cancer for well over 20 years) so she should be considered lucky and she is 94 years old but I just don't want to see her go. Her cancers have always been in a low stage and non dangerous and they've only just recently jumped into the danger zone to where she could die within the next few months to next year.

When my dad's parents passed away I was devastated and my wife had to try to pick up the pieces of my shattered life and when my mom's dad passed away I didn't have her to console me but now it's becoming all too real. My sister and I are our grandmother's favorite grandchildren and she barely even remembers who we are anymore. She used to send us cards every year for our birthday and then she started to forget our birthdays which was totally unlike her.

It's becoming time to let go of my last grandparent I am afterall almost 40 years old and I'm lucky to still have a living grandparent at my age but, I just don't want to let go. Please pray for us and pray that my grandmother goes peacefully or optimistically dies from old age and not cancer.
Father in heaven, we ask for spiritual and physical healing and comfort for Neostar and his family. In Jesus' most precious name, strengthen and bless them all in ways only You can. Thank You, Father. Amen.
 
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I do not know what the state of your grandmother would be in regard to salvation, and really usually only the Lord knows for us each. So to be on the safe side, I do pray that she will go to heaven when she dies.

I also pray that she will be free from pain and stress. And that you will be comforted and strengthened by the Holy Spirit when the time comes, along with others in your family.
 
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So I've known for years and years that my grandmother has had multiple kinds of cancer. I've known since high school that she's had Lukemia but I've never known that my grandmother has had colon cancer since I was in high school as well. My mom hasn't really been keeping me up to date on her mom and I just recently lost an uncle to Lung Cancer. It killed him pretty quickly and they couldn't do anything for him. My grandmother is the only grandparent I have left and she has lived for all of these years with her cancer (I graduated high school way back in 2004 so she's had her cancer for well over 20 years) so she should be considered lucky and she is 94 years old but I just don't want to see her go. Her cancers have always been in a low stage and non dangerous and they've only just recently jumped into the danger zone to where she could die within the next few months to next year.

When my dad's parents passed away I was devastated and my wife had to try to pick up the pieces of my shattered life and when my mom's dad passed away I didn't have her to console me but now it's becoming all too real. My sister and I are our grandmother's favorite grandchildren and she barely even remembers who we are anymore. She used to send us cards every year for our birthday and then she started to forget our birthdays which was totally unlike her.

It's becoming time to let go of my last grandparent I am afterall almost 40 years old and I'm lucky to still have a living grandparent at my age but, I just don't want to let go. Please pray for us and pray that my grandmother goes peacefully or optimistically dies from old age and not cancer.
Praying now! Lord God I lift up Neostarwcc's grandparent to You and I pray for Your intervention in their current situation. I pray for a miracle healing from cancer and for complete elimination of all symptoms with no pain or discomfort, I pray that any cancerous tumor in their body would shrink and disappear in the name of Jesus! I pray for wisdom for all doctors and that You would show them what to do. I pray that they would live and not die, I also pray that if it is their time to go that it would be peaceful! I speak life over their mind, body, and emotions in the name of Jesus and I speak peace over their mind, body, and emotions in the name of Jesus! Thank You God!
 
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So I've known for years and years that my grandmother has had multiple kinds of cancer. I've known since high school that she's had Lukemia but I've never known that my grandmother has had colon cancer since I was in high school as well. My mom hasn't really been keeping me up to date on her mom and I just recently lost an uncle to Lung Cancer. It killed him pretty quickly and they couldn't do anything for him. My grandmother is the only grandparent I have left and she has lived for all of these years with her cancer (I graduated high school way back in 2004 so she's had her cancer for well over 20 years) so she should be considered lucky and she is 94 years old but I just don't want to see her go. Her cancers have always been in a low stage and non dangerous and they've only just recently jumped into the danger zone to where she could die within the next few months to next year.

When my dad's parents passed away I was devastated and my wife had to try to pick up the pieces of my shattered life and when my mom's dad passed away I didn't have her to console me but now it's becoming all too real. My sister and I are our grandmother's favorite grandchildren and she barely even remembers who we are anymore. She used to send us cards every year for our birthday and then she started to forget our birthdays which was totally unlike her.

It's becoming time to let go of my last grandparent I am afterall almost 40 years old and I'm lucky to still have a living grandparent at my age but, I just don't want to let go. Please pray for us and pray that my grandmother goes peacefully or optimistically dies from old age and not cancer.

Our Father in heaven,

We come to You in prayer for Neostarwcc's grandma. We ask for Your grace to be upon her. In times of pain may You grant her relieve and in times of forgetfulness may You grant her clarity. We ask too Lord for a pouring of blessing to be upon the family. By Your mighty Will may the family continue to have an abundant of opportunities for togetherness. Richly bless the time she will have with the family.

We give thanks to You Lord for the lifetime she has and in Your good time Lord may You grant her a swift return in the fullness of grace. In the name of Jesus our Savior we pray, Amen.
 
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I do not know what the state of your grandmother would be in regard to salvation, and really usually only the Lord knows for us each. So to be on the safe side, I do pray that she will go to heaven when she dies.

I also pray that she will be free from pain and stress. And that you will be comforted and strengthened by the Holy Spirit when the time comes, along with others in your family.


She and my grandfather are/were devout Catholics. She wasn't in church every Sunday but I would call her more saved than my mom is.
 
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