Just wondering how folks feel about being successful as a believer.
Big picture in mind is it to leave an inheritance - if so what kind of inheritance?
Is it being faithful in your 'small corner' ??
Is it discovering His purpose for you and walking in it ?
Is it being successful in relationships?
Is it none of the above?
Is there something to achieve?
How are you doing with this and are you happy with the outcome?
I believe we should aim only to be faithful as a believer.
Faithful with what God has given us, faithful in prayer, faithful in adversity etc. After all, we are not told that God will one day say "well done, good and successful servant". If we faithfully serve God, in all he asks us to be and do and wherever he places us, we might one day - on our death beds - be able to say "I have succeeded; I have run, and finished, the race".
If you're asking about being successful as a person, it's taken me a long time to be able to say that I don't care.
For many years I compared myself to other people, "He's got a good job and earns a lot", "she has founded 2 charities, written books, raised thousands and got a title", "he is a bishop/theologian/Rev Dr has 5 churches/a mega church and is tipped for promotion". Achievements like that sound impressive, command respect and open many doors - people are judged on, and defined by, their achievements.
I have not had a paid job for 14 years, and before that I was ill for 18. My CV is unimpressive. I have often felt inferior compared to others, and certainly to "Christian superstars", which has, inevitably, had a bearing on how God sees me and if I am good enough for him.
Nowadays? I genuinely don't care.
I call myself a full time volunteer. Everything I do, church work, preaching, charity work, is unpaid, I can pretty much do what I like - or what I believe, before God, is right - and I'm happy. I have recently written a book. I paid to have it published, and I buy copies - hugely discounted - which I have, so far, given away do that others may hear the Gospel. I use the buses so often that I know all the regulars and a number of the drivers. We have some great, possibly deep, conversations. People have often sat next to me and started telling me about their lives and problems.
Compared to many, this is not "success" - compared to any who cannot even feed themselves, never mind think of paying to publish a book, it may well be.