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I was watching the Waltons and they had a German Jewish family with a little boy of the age of having his Bar Mitzpah. Grandpa Walton went to visit the family and said no matter what your race or religion, you must be proud of your heritage. Maybe pride is a bad thing, perhaps I should not listen to Grandpa Walton, but it reminded me of my own Southern Baptist heritage. I confess sometimes I am ashamed of being Southern and white. I feel like my family has a history of racism. I understand that slavery has been practiced by nearly every culture and race in the world, there is slavery in the Bible, there is bond-servitude, or bond servants, there was the feudal system practiced in medieval England and Europe. The industrial revolution used women and children to work in the factories under inhumane conditions, in third world countries children and girls still work in horrible conditions in factories with the products sold in the USA.

Jesus told us that we must deny our father and mother, deny our brothers, sisters and children, our family, and take up our cross and follow him. The slave owners of the old south used to Bible to defend their brutal business of slave farming. The abolitionists of the north used the Bible to defend there cause of freedom for slaves. If they were truthful, they would practice what Jesus said that whoever wants to be first must be the last, the last would be first. The one who humbles himself like a servant would receive the reward in heaven. Whoever wants to rule them all must be the slave of them all. The riches of gentleman southern plantation owners, the riches, luxuries and things of this world were too tempting for them to be honest Bible believing born again Christians.

Black people of African descent have it hard ever since they were kidnapped from there homes and forced to do back-breaking labor in southern fields. They have trouble finding jobs, they are angry against people who discriminate against them. I must confess I have a bit of racism in me, I am trying to get rid of it and let Jesus Christ change me and teach me to love people who are different. I don't want to be hateful. I want to be filled with God's love. Love, forgiveness, saves us from hatred.

I realize I cannot hate my Southern heritage, that would be to hate myself, and we must love our neighbor as we love ourself. Manners, patience, gardening, kindness, these are southern things.
 
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I was watching the Waltons and they had a German Jewish family with a little boy of the age of having his Bar Mitzpah. Grandpa Walton went to visit the family and said no matter what your race or religion, you must be proud of your heritage. Maybe pride is a bad thing, perhaps I should not listen to Grandpa Walton, but it reminded me of my own Southern Baptist heritage. I confess sometimes I am ashamed of being Southern and white. I feel like my family has a history of racism. I understand that slavery has been practiced by nearly every culture and race in the world, there is slavery in the Bible, there is bond-servitude, or bond servants, there was the feudal system practiced in medieval England and Europe. The industrial revolution used women and children to work in the factories under inhumane conditions, in third world countries children and girls still work in horrible conditions in factories with the products sold in the USA.

Jesus told us that we must deny our father and mother, deny our brothers, sisters and children, our family, and take up our cross and follow him. The slave owners of the old south used to Bible to defend their brutal business of slave farming. The abolitionists of the north used the Bible to defend there cause of freedom for slaves. If they were truthful, they would practice what Jesus said that whoever wants to be first must be the last, the last would be first. The one who humbles himself like a servant would receive the reward in heaven. Whoever wants to rule them all must be the slave of them all. The riches of gentleman southern plantation owners, the riches, luxuries and things of this world were too tempting for them to be honest Bible believing born again Christians.

Black people of African descent have it hard ever since they were kidnapped from there homes and forced to do back-breaking labor in southern fields. They have trouble finding jobs, they are angry against people who discriminate against them. I must confess I have a bit of racism in me, I am trying to get rid of it and let Jesus Christ change me and teach me to love people who are different. I don't want to be hateful. I want to be filled with God's love. Love, forgiveness, saves us from hatred.

I realize I cannot hate my Southern heritage, that would be to hate myself, and we must love our neighbor as we love ourself. Manners, patience, gardening, kindness, these are southern things.

Just a heads up, but history is written by the victors, and its rarely the full truth.

You may be from the south, but so is my husband and there is not one person in his family who ever owned a slave. There were a couple of his ancestral grandfather's that fought in the civil war, but in reading their accounts, letters and memoirs they weren't fighting to keep slavery alive.

So it may be good for your heart to actually learn your family's history, you may be surprised at what you find.

That said, the sins of your ancestors are NOT on you. You didn't do them. You need to judge who you are not by what people you never knew did, but by what you are as a human being and a Christian. There's no guilt for you to feel when it's sins you never committed.

Something else to keep in mind, is that even the sins you commit are forgiven in Christ - and His Glory and Mercy is seen most clearly in those he saves..

The most amazing song about salvation was written by someone who was a slave trader before he was saved... the song is Amazing Grace, and it touched even me, another sinner, a couple + hundred years after it was penned.

It never would have been written if he hadn't been a sinner and had his eyes opened by God to the truth of the Gospel. That is the forgiveness of God... and the power of the Gospel is that he stopped because he was saved.

So see it as history and nothing else. There was nothing in it that wasn't common to mankind, and none of it was your fault or your sin to feel shame over.

I did my ancestry just for fun when my husband did his and mine came up with some Italian thrown in.

So my husband teases that the Roman probably comes from one of the crusade wars and a Roman woman was taken as slave against her will...

I laugh with him over it because ... who cares? It's A. Possibly true, and B. not my sin if it is true... I'm a saved child of God regardless of what my ancestors may have done - on that front we are all equals, no matter who we are or what our ancestors did or did not do.

So yes, you can look at your history, the good and the bad of it, and celebrate the good that your people contributed to the world, and perhaps learn from the bad in it. Those who don't know history are doomed to repeat it, as the saying goes.

But most of all... love the God who saved us all.. :)

 
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Thank you so much, for such kind words of love, blessing and hope. I am my own person. I want to obey the words of Jesus. Being born again means we must all make our own personal decision to follow Jesus Christ no one else can make it for us. The Bible says: "Man looks at the outward appearance, but God looks at the heart." God does not choose favorites. I am not to blame for whatever my ancestors did. I do not judge people of different races. God created Adam and Eve, and they had a multitude of children that probably were of all the different human races on earth. There are many different people because God likes variety. My parents are righteous people and they love me very much and taught me what's right and what's wrong, they took me to church and still take good care of me just like I help them out. my grandparents loved and spoiled me and my sister. A lot of my grandparents died when I was young, but I still have good memories of them. i have nice aunts, uncles and cousins, I have a good family that is loving and kind. They are not perfect, but they love me. I love my family.
 
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I was watching the Waltons and they had a German Jewish family with a little boy of the age of having his Bar Mitzpah. Grandpa Walton went to visit the family and said no matter what your race or religion, you must be proud of your heritage. Maybe pride is a bad thing, perhaps I should not listen to Grandpa Walton, but it reminded me of my own Southern Baptist heritage. I confess sometimes I am ashamed of being Southern and white. I feel like my family has a history of racism. I understand that slavery has been practiced by nearly every culture and race in the world, there is slavery in the Bible, there is bond-servitude, or bond servants, there was the feudal system practiced in medieval England and Europe. The industrial revolution used women and children to work in the factories under inhumane conditions, in third world countries children and girls still work in horrible conditions in factories with the products sold in the USA.

Jesus told us that we must deny our father and mother, deny our brothers, sisters and children, our family, and take up our cross and follow him. The slave owners of the old south used to Bible to defend their brutal business of slave farming. The abolitionists of the north used the Bible to defend there cause of freedom for slaves. If they were truthful, they would practice what Jesus said that whoever wants to be first must be the last, the last would be first. The one who humbles himself like a servant would receive the reward in heaven. Whoever wants to rule them all must be the slave of them all. The riches of gentleman southern plantation owners, the riches, luxuries and things of this world were too tempting for them to be honest Bible believing born again Christians.

Black people of African descent have it hard ever since they were kidnapped from there homes and forced to do back-breaking labor in southern fields. They have trouble finding jobs, they are angry against people who discriminate against them. I must confess I have a bit of racism in me, I am trying to get rid of it and let Jesus Christ change me and teach me to love people who are different. I don't want to be hateful. I want to be filled with God's love. Love, forgiveness, saves us from hatred.

I realize I cannot hate my Southern heritage, that would be to hate myself, and we must love our neighbor as we love ourself. Manners, patience, gardening, kindness, these are southern things.

There is so much good about southern heritage and southern culture. I think we should be brutally honest about the reality of slavery and racism in the south in order to clarify all that is good. As a Christian and southerner, I simply cannot act like the church was not complicit or try to whitewash it. I do not approve of nor defend the racism in my own heritage. Nonetheless, I'm not going to sit hear and act like a crawfish boil with the folks in the community and some down home jams ain't just two steps this side of heaven. That is very good and can be found nowhere else. That's just one example, of course. We have come a long way, but we still have a ways to go. Each generation has a responsibility and this is ours. Let's do it. Let's makes sure those aspects of the past die and stay dead and keep what's best, which is a lot.
 
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Must be better than what tourists say about NYC. (Taken from city data NYC message board).

"I was in times square with my friend and a tourist stopped her and asked for some directions since she can speak Spanish. She started having a little conversation with them and then she tells me they are from Colombia and they said that NYC looks more scarier and dirtier now than back in their country!! They said they have never seen so many people do drugs in public or urinate."
 
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I like where I live. I think it is ridiculous how people are falsely accused of racism over the least little pathetic thing, only black people can say the 'n' word and their rap is filled with filthy profane language like the 'f' word. There are a lot of good things about the south. We still have manners, nature, gardens, good but fattening food. Sometimes people are still allowed to spank their children if they behave really bad. Normally I'm against spanking, but sometimes children behave so horribly that is what they deserve. We have Wal-mart, where, despite bad service, you can find what you want at a cheap price. In northern-influenced Florida, no one disciplines their screaming, crying misbehaving children, but in southern states you can give them a smack on the behind to hush them up, they are being very rude to the other customers, so the screaming children are punished and made to be quiet. The parents get the fact that their kids are disturbing other shoppers, and they don't have to worry about the police coming after them.

Sometimes people in the north are too politically correct. I believe n what Jesus Christ said:

"Love the Lord your God with all your heart, mind, soul, and all your strength, and love your neighbor as you love yourself."

Jesus also told us to love our enemies, because God causes the sun to shine and the rain to fall on both the just and unjust.
 
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The phrase "Southern Hospitality" comes to mind. As a man unwilling to leave the South due to an admiration of the culture here, I applaud your convictions, of which I share, and champion our admiration for our culture and heritage. God bless sister!
 
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Yes there is southern hospitality especially when we are trying to snag tourists and snow birds, Florida makes a lot of profit from winter visitors, snowbirds, tourism is a big part of our economy. Other places in the south are popular with tourists, Georgia, Tennessee, the states with the Great Smoky mountains and Blue Ridge Mountains, or the mountains called Appalachian are very beautiful and popular. The Appalachians are beautiful with gorgeous scenery, so green and fertile. I have seen some lovely trees and wild flowers in those hills/mountains.

There are also beaches and swamps, wetlands for tourists to go through. There are cities with magnificent buildings, mansions to tour, shopping and restaurants.

Do you know about Cracker Barrel, the chain of southern/country restaurants? It's my family's favorite restaurant. Mom and I like the store they have with all kinds of cute stuff.
 
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Yes there is southern hospitality especially when we are trying to snag tourists and snow birds, Florida makes a lot of profit from winter visitors, snowbirds, tourism is a big part of our economy. Other places in the south are popular with tourists, Georgia, Tennessee, the states with the Great Smoky mountains and Blue Ridge Mountains, or the mountains called Appalachian are very beautiful and popular. The Appalachians are beautiful with gorgeous scenery, so green and fertile. I have seen some lovely trees and wild flowers in those hills/mountains.

There are also beaches and swamps, wetlands for tourists to go through. There are cities with magnificent buildings, mansions to tour, shopping and restaurants.

Do you know about Cracker Barrel, the chain of southern/country restaurants? It's my family's favorite restaurant. Mom and I like the store they have with all kinds of cute stuff.

Oh of course...we eat at Cracker Barrel often, as well as Waffle House.
 
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