Yes, that could be true. But remember, they can get their perception of who Jesus is by other Christians. For example, every time that I talk about surrendering my life to Jesus, Christians will say well, not everybody who call on Jesus will enter the kingdom of heaven. They have used that verse against me. So, they may go around and think, well maybe I am saved or not saved. They start to think that it is impossible, even when calling on his name to be saved, so then what is the point.
Now God is the only one who knows the motivations of other Christians. But sometimes when other Christians talk about his judgment and wrath, they appear to be happy that other people going to hell, and they are going to go to heaven. Look at Joy Behar and her comments about other Christians. She made some mocking comments about other Christians, which was wrong. But then when she apologized, other Christians for one thing doubted her sincere apology; but then they said when judgment comes, she is going to get it. It seemed like they would rejoice at that fact. There was a lot of comments about that. I wouldn't wish God's punishment on my worst enemy. The point is sometimes we get our perception from other Christians.
Actually, I am not trying to put God in a box at all. I recognize that I am human and God is not. I recognize that I may view God by human emotions. But my goal is to step away from that. I have put God in a box before. But my goal is to step away from that. That is why I wrote this thread. I have been crying out to God for mercy and for his forgiveness of my sins in hopes that he would give it. But in my threads, I have been saying that I don't truly know God. However, when I talked about God, it wasn't me telling you, this is the way God is, it was waiting for a correction from people that know God already. I have no problem being corrected and told, no, that is not who he is.