- Aug 9, 2020
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Hi I'm here for some advice.
I have been attending my church for almost a decade. After I graduated high school, I transitioned into the adult ministry. I seemed to have built resentment towards the adult ministry pastor.
I feel as if he though he has many shortcomings. He has very poor social skills, is very passive and is apathetic. He wanted to enter healthcare when he was younger but couldn't and he was diagnosed with depression. His parents recommended that he go to seminary, although he was hesitant. There is not much accountability or passion from him. He has served as a pastor in administration for 10 years at a previous megachurch and when he came to my church 4 years ago he started the lead position where he was expected to actually interact with people instead of solely focusing on the behind the scenes of a church. I have been serving under him for the past 3 years, but I feel as if I am not growing at all and if anything I am becoming more like him. 80% of the church left because of him when he started the adult ministry and I am trying very hard to love him, but it is difficult. Our ministry consists of 5 people. I really do not want to leave this church because God has not given me a sign.
What should I do? Does anyone have any experience or advice?
I have been attending my church for almost a decade. After I graduated high school, I transitioned into the adult ministry. I seemed to have built resentment towards the adult ministry pastor.
I feel as if he though he has many shortcomings. He has very poor social skills, is very passive and is apathetic. He wanted to enter healthcare when he was younger but couldn't and he was diagnosed with depression. His parents recommended that he go to seminary, although he was hesitant. There is not much accountability or passion from him. He has served as a pastor in administration for 10 years at a previous megachurch and when he came to my church 4 years ago he started the lead position where he was expected to actually interact with people instead of solely focusing on the behind the scenes of a church. I have been serving under him for the past 3 years, but I feel as if I am not growing at all and if anything I am becoming more like him. 80% of the church left because of him when he started the adult ministry and I am trying very hard to love him, but it is difficult. Our ministry consists of 5 people. I really do not want to leave this church because God has not given me a sign.
What should I do? Does anyone have any experience or advice?