How do I kill my idolisation of white women?

Layne Staley said it best: Get born-again.

J Daniel said:

Black British (Caribbean ancestry)

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you are an Israelite..you are NOT black nor are you african!

Deuteronomy 7:2-4
ezra 10:1-4
Nehemiah 13:23-27

this is the charge of the LORD for His people Israel.

if you would have said you were from Ethiopia or Nigeria then you would be a hamite and i'd tell you don't worry about it and date whomever.

may the LORD grant you strength to repent and turn back to Him.

Maybe try talking to people and getting to know them and find out what they are like inside rather than just what's outside. That might kill your idolization. Once you realize people are just people.

J Daniel said:

Black British (Caribbean ancestry)

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J Daniel said:

Better of idolising your own women!

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Well, I don't know if black British women are less evil than white British women. I suspect they are not, so they'll make you pay too. Or were you wanting this for family/social reasons?

J Daniel said:

Nope that is a problem for me - must love your own the most.

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But "your own" should be people of character, not people of color.

Some nations simply have better looking women than other nations. You do not have to punish yourself for it.

But if you are idolising their character (thinking they are good women just because they look pretty), then I understand your problem.

MehGuy said:

Well white women tend to naturally have the fairest skin. I suspect it is not just skin color, but eye and hair color too.

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Most Koreans I see are just as fair as white women.

I'm not sure if it's the hair. Especially without any makeup! As even blondes will dye their eyebrows black or any dark color and wear black or dark colored mascaras.

timewerx said:

Most Koreans I see are just as fair as white women.

I'm not sure if it's the hair. Especially without any makeup! As even blondes will dye their eyebrows black or any dark color and wear black or dark colored mascaras.

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From looking at a google search for Korean women, many of them look a few shades darker. Some look just as white, but isn't skin bleaching a popular thing down there?

As far as lighter haired women dying their eyebrows black, I suspect it is to help them look more expressive. And mascara is used to help pop out the eyes and make them look more prominent.

I have the same problem but I'm white and I find black and Indian women to be very attractive. We live in a very sexualized society but I believe as I grow in my relationship with God I will overcome my strongholds

I don't see what's so wrong with finding women of different races attractive. If you're a Christian and you make an idol out of it, then I can understand why that's bad. But simply being attracted to women in general (regardless of what race they belong to) seems normal to me.