I read the chapters 9 and 10 of Ezra in the ESV translation and I didn't see any mention of "pagan", so it must be something in your translation. What translation are you reading?
First off, great work, Cloudy! Whether or not we end up agreeing, I very much appreciate that you took the time to work on this like you have. I can respect that.
As for my translation choices, I'm not sure it makes a whole lot of difference, but I'm reading the Hebrew-Greek Key Study bible – NASB, and the NKJV, so there very well could be some seeming variance in 'how' the texts read. The NASB seems to use the term “foreign” in translation of the Hebrew term
נָכְרִיּ֖וֹת [nokriy] rather than “pagan,” and I can see how the connotative insinuations can seem doused as we read if we just passively leave everything on the level of English equivolency, which I refuse to do.
So, we have this term (adjective?)
Strong's Hebrew: 5237. נָכְרִי (nokri) -- foreign, alien
...and in recognition of this term were going to realize that, in the context of the passage involving Ezra's monologue here and relatedly so in the book of Nehemiah, the implication is that the women involved were not good little gals from next door, but idolatrous foreign women who may not quite have known that proper worship doesn't include, maybe—who knows what: things not appropriate to marriage and family (...like may just a tiny bit of child-sacrifice here and there or an openness to threesomes in the bedroom, or who know what, in addition to their simply not realizing that Yahweh is the Lord, the One and Only Lord, God. All stuff that, of course, in today's Pluralistic maze, we all tend to think: Meh! So what!) Regardless, this overall 'foreign' context comes by way of the textual fact that we find that the concept of “abominations”-----rather than genetic stock---as being the first and primary problem denoted in all of this stuff which Ezra cites against the Israelite men. Some of which very much reflects the same kinds of “goings on” in
Numbers chapters 22, 23, 24, 25 AND 31.
BTW, Wikipedia on Ezra says that some is in Aramaic and some is in Hebrew and some is first person and some is third person. This makes me suspect that what we have is a commentary and a scribe who carelessly mixed the comments with the original. The commentary might need to be extracted from Ezra, because they might have been added decades or centuries later by somebody who thought he understood Ezra but didn't.
Yes, I've heard that too and while it may be true, I don't think it defrays the overall fact that we're dealing with a text that implies idolatrous guilt on the part of the women involved and a temptation and scandal for the men involved.
Also see
Ezra 9:12 RSV:
10 “And now, O our God, what shall we say after this? For we have forsaken thy commandments, 11 which thou didst command by thy servants the prophets, saying, ‘The land which you are entering, to take possession of it, is a land unclean with the pollutions of the peoples of the lands, with their abominations which have filled it from end to end with their uncleanness. 12 Therefore give not your daughters to their sons, neither take their daughters for your sons, and never seek their peace or prosperity, that you may be strong, and eat the good of the land, and leave it for an inheritance to your children for ever.’
Bible Gateway passage: Ezra 9:10-12 - Revised Standard Version
Right, and all of this ties back to the Law that prohibited the Israelits from intermingling and marrying with 'pagans,' but specifically pagans who refused to conform to the Israel's worship of Yahweh. All of which basically blows away much of what I'm going to call the “genetic fallacy” in this case, that all of this prohibition was because the foreigners were of another bloodline. No, it's most, if not really only, because of their ABOMINATIONS, not their bloodlines.
Notice how the sparing of virgins in
Numbers 31 was a deviation from Ezra's characterization of God's instructions.
In response to your hint about Nehemiah here is the passage
Nehemiah 13:23-27 RSV:
23 In those days also I saw the Jews who had married women of Ashdod, Ammon, and Moab; 24 and half of their children spoke the language of Ashdod, and they could not speak the language of Judah, but the language of each people. 25 And I contended with them and cursed them and beat some of them and pulled out their hair; and I made them take oath in the name of God, saying, “You shall not give your daughters to their sons, or take their daughters for your sons or for yourselves. 26 Did not Solomon king of Israel sin on account of such women? Among the many nations there was no king like him, and he was beloved by his God, and God made him king over all Israel; nevertheless foreign women made even him to sin. 27 Shall we then listen to you and do all this great evil and act treacherously against our God by marrying foreign women?”
Bible Gateway passage: Nehemiah 13:23-27 - Revised Standard Version
Yes, sparing the virgins is a deviation.............but it seems like an act of sensical mercy since the other option was, death, not pluralistic respect. Moreover, those virgins were NOT going to be given the choice of worshipping as they saw fit. No, with their families removed from the scene, they were going to be expected to conform to Israel's worship. Harsh, yes; possibly putting them, however, on the side of eternal salvation, yes.
Nehemiah seems to be ambiguous. The language issue is mentioned first, and that sounds like cultural chauvinism which can be a handmaiden of genocide. Later Solomon's sins (idolatry) are blamed on foreign wives. And of course there is mention of the commandment mentioned in Ezra that disagrees with the sparing of virgins in
Numbers 31.
Yes, and this "Sin of Solomon" motif is, let's say, an inferred golden thread that runs through the whole reason Israel broke down morally and spiritually, eventually leading into Exile in Babylon.
Anyway, as far as 'genocide' is concerned, I don't think the Midianites were being subject exclusively to genocide, nor for the reasons of “genetics.” Besides, has anyone noticed that the Midianites were NOT originally under the ban that the Canaanites were under? But now the Midianites are getting smacked.