So all the other posters are pretty accurate.
Your post seems to imply that you are just going to sit at home, and pray that G-d brings you a husband. That generally speaking, does not happen. I'm 41, and I'm single. In all my years, only 2 times have women just shown up randomly. Once at about 8 PM, someone knocked on my door, and I opened in and two women with food, walked into my home.
They had apparently mistaken my house for a friends house, and walked in before even seeing who opened the door. They both go in the house, froze, looked around, looked at me, started squealing with laughter, and then left.
They were laughing so hard, and so red in the face from embarrassment, that they didn't even give me an explanation. The only really sad part was they didn't leave the food when they left. Sad face -_-
And the second time, I was at work, and a lady walked up and said "this is going to be awkward...." and somehow I instantly knew what was coming. "Would you like to go out for coffee?"
I ended up going with her just that once, because I could tell she had mustered all the courage she had to ask. However, she was a crazy pagan girl, so after that I did not go with her anywhere again.
My point to you is, I don't know what your church has taught you, but if you think that G-d is going to just 'bring you a husband', I would suggest that is highly unlikely.
There is no evidence in the Bible, that G-d just brings people a spouse. There is tons about finding a spouse, searching for a spouse, and looking for a spouse. But the only person who G-d specifically brought a spouse to, was Adam, when he was given Eve.
Look at the book of Ruth. Did they pray for favor? Sure. But Ruth, with the help of Naomi, basically hunted down Boaz down. They got her all dolled up, got her perfume on, planned out how to approach the man. It was a well thought out conspiracy.
So I would say that you should be praying that G-d will make your search for a husband successful. However, as that prayer implies, you need to be searching.
As for how you search, I noticed you mentioned clubbing and partying.
Do you believe that you will find a good Christian man, in the clubs?
I would suggest possibly not. But if they are not there, then where are they?
The answer to that question will determine where you should spend your time.
I refuse to believe that good Christian men, are clubbing all night long. I would say I am not a terrible Christian man, and I have never gone clubbing all night.
Now I get it, that where you are, most people meet members of the opposite sex, at a club while partying. I get it.
But I don't think good Christian men do that. So if they don't, then they have to be doing something else.
My wager is that they are involved in the church. Maybe you need to be more involved in the Church.
However, it does not have to be the church. It could be some other activity. Like serving in a charity or outreach. I don't know.
Whatever the case may be, the solution isn't holding up in your house, waiting for someone to come, and the solution isn't acting like a pagan and going to some orgy of some sort.
No one can give you a perfect formula for success. But I can certainly say the two above, are a formula for failure.
