- Nov 16, 2013
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I just really don't want to go today. Is it bad if I miss this morning? I do have a habit of missing every now and then but I'm seriously just wanting to go back to sleep. Church can bore me at times. I really don't know why. Every time I go, I pray that God will let the preaching interest me and not make me fall to sleep but it always does. When I hear the preacher say "God loves you" or "He died for your sins", it doesn't comfort me at all like it should. I even question why God loves me. Sometimes I try to convince myself that he doesn't. Mostly because I hate myself. I mean, why would he love me if I don't love me?
I do believe he died for my sins but it doesn't comfort me, sadly. I pray that it does almost all the time but he doesn't answer. I don't know why. He won't even give me a straight answer if I'm a Christian or not. I repented of my sins multiple times and yet still don't feel like he saved me. I was even told by a true Christian that I was not saved because if I was, I'd know it. I would remember the exact day and just know that I'm saved. Sadly, I don't. I pray and pray every night that God will tell me I am but he won't for some reason. You know what else? He never convicts me of sin. I've noticed that lately. I know what the spirit feels like and I know that God does not convict me like he does every Christian who slips up and sins. He's supposed to correct his children. How can I be a child of God if he doesn't correct me? That's proof that I'm not Christian. I'd rather be dead if I'm hell bound. I remember when I was a teen I always felt the spirit. I would even pray him away because I didn't want others to see me cry (I got made fun of for crying by my mom who is a devout Christian). I think it worked because now I never feel him. Not even in church, which is another reason why I don't want to go. I feel so upset when I see others praising God. I want to but it's not coming from the heart. I can't if it's not coming from the heart. What should I do? I want God to love me. I can't repent if God doesn't convict me. It wouldn't be true repentance, or so that's what I was told. Honestly, I thought I was a Christian at one point. I was doing so good until a Christian told me otherwise (he's a pastor). Now for almost 5 years, I've been going down the wrong path, though not completely. I still have hope that God will fix everything. But I'm afraid that the hope will one day run out and I'll eventually give up and hurt myself, as I'm always wanting to die. I just can't bring myself to act on it, even though I used to be able to easily. Sorry for my complaining. Anyways, should I go this morning? Thanks for reading.
I do believe he died for my sins but it doesn't comfort me, sadly. I pray that it does almost all the time but he doesn't answer. I don't know why. He won't even give me a straight answer if I'm a Christian or not. I repented of my sins multiple times and yet still don't feel like he saved me. I was even told by a true Christian that I was not saved because if I was, I'd know it. I would remember the exact day and just know that I'm saved. Sadly, I don't. I pray and pray every night that God will tell me I am but he won't for some reason. You know what else? He never convicts me of sin. I've noticed that lately. I know what the spirit feels like and I know that God does not convict me like he does every Christian who slips up and sins. He's supposed to correct his children. How can I be a child of God if he doesn't correct me? That's proof that I'm not Christian. I'd rather be dead if I'm hell bound. I remember when I was a teen I always felt the spirit. I would even pray him away because I didn't want others to see me cry (I got made fun of for crying by my mom who is a devout Christian). I think it worked because now I never feel him. Not even in church, which is another reason why I don't want to go. I feel so upset when I see others praising God. I want to but it's not coming from the heart. I can't if it's not coming from the heart. What should I do? I want God to love me. I can't repent if God doesn't convict me. It wouldn't be true repentance, or so that's what I was told. Honestly, I thought I was a Christian at one point. I was doing so good until a Christian told me otherwise (he's a pastor). Now for almost 5 years, I've been going down the wrong path, though not completely. I still have hope that God will fix everything. But I'm afraid that the hope will one day run out and I'll eventually give up and hurt myself, as I'm always wanting to die. I just can't bring myself to act on it, even though I used to be able to easily. Sorry for my complaining. Anyways, should I go this morning? Thanks for reading.