- Jun 9, 2017
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I am in a quandary. I realise the church i attend consists of old people set in their ways. Lovely people but they are stunting my growth. I realise i must leave. Find a bigger more vibrant church, meet truly passionate christians, i want to be stimulated.
I feel guilty. For now my plan is just withdraw from going to church at all. Use the time to think, pray, read and rest on Sundays. There is more to it. I have tried to instill life in this church but feel unappreciated even put down. I have never liked the person in charge.
But the elderly congregation are nice, kind people. They helped me after my bereavement. I feel i owe them my duty snd allegiance. I am involved in the running of the church. But now i feel hemmed in, suffocated. I cannot breathe.
I need change but am scared and uncertain. I want to serve God and i must go elsewhere to do it. Meanwhile i read my Bible daily, plus lots of books and prayer is my favourite and constant activity.
There used to be a housegroup which i loved and depended upon weekly. But they have almost stopped meeting due to other commitments and events. Nobody knows how disappointed and frustrated that has made me feel. That is what has triggered my anger and disillusionment. Then i added up all the other ways i am not being fed as a Christian. I take it to prayer and feel God is directing me to make the break and start afresh.
Is it essential to go to church anyway? Am i better off developing on my own? I've git nobody but my partner to confide in. I cannot say a word to anyone else as i think they would regard this as mutiny. Its a close community. So i think it's best to just cite 'family commitments' as an excuse and just stay away from church. I never dreamed i would feel this way.
I feel guilty. For now my plan is just withdraw from going to church at all. Use the time to think, pray, read and rest on Sundays. There is more to it. I have tried to instill life in this church but feel unappreciated even put down. I have never liked the person in charge.
But the elderly congregation are nice, kind people. They helped me after my bereavement. I feel i owe them my duty snd allegiance. I am involved in the running of the church. But now i feel hemmed in, suffocated. I cannot breathe.
I need change but am scared and uncertain. I want to serve God and i must go elsewhere to do it. Meanwhile i read my Bible daily, plus lots of books and prayer is my favourite and constant activity.
There used to be a housegroup which i loved and depended upon weekly. But they have almost stopped meeting due to other commitments and events. Nobody knows how disappointed and frustrated that has made me feel. That is what has triggered my anger and disillusionment. Then i added up all the other ways i am not being fed as a Christian. I take it to prayer and feel God is directing me to make the break and start afresh.
Is it essential to go to church anyway? Am i better off developing on my own? I've git nobody but my partner to confide in. I cannot say a word to anyone else as i think they would regard this as mutiny. Its a close community. So i think it's best to just cite 'family commitments' as an excuse and just stay away from church. I never dreamed i would feel this way.
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